The top 5 things I've learned in my 5+ years on this site...  

sensualguitarguy 48M  
6 posts
3/28/2017 8:32 pm
The top 5 things I've learned in my 5+ years on this site...

So....First of all let me say that I have had my share of fun times with some very cool women from After a lot of getting stood up, faked out, and teased over and over and over again, I finally found a formula that works for me and I thought I would share some thoughts....(Some of these might be fairly obvious but here goes...)

Oh one thing...These are generalizations and do not apply to everyone, so do me a favor and save the drama...just read and enjoy.

1. SAVE IT......Guys, Most women on here do NOT want to see your cock in the first, second or third conversation (whether online or in person) Most women I have had the pleasure of meeting and playing with on here over the years want someone they can at least talk to in a regular kind of way (EVEN IF THEY JUST WANT NSA) Trust matter how big or thick you think it is, if you want to talk to and eventually meet for fun with someone you are attracted to, Save the cock shots for when they ASK for them.

2. BE RESPECTFUL....Even if a woman wants to be treated like a sex object, cum slut, a dog, or whatever....Do so respectfully.....She is still human. Call her by her name...if you meet...LOOK INTO HER EYES.....LISTEN to what she says, you might learn something. If she stops chatting or texting after you have met and had some fun, GET OVER IT....its a sex site, not

3. MAN UP!...... If you get into a situation and you somehow for whatever reason decide she isnt for you.. TELL HER! TELL HER! TELL HER!! Text her, IM her, email her, call her....Do whatever you have to to not lead her on. When you guys stand women up and waste their time cause you have no balls or you have no clue how to use a calendar...You fuck it up for yourself not to mention the REST OF US. So stop it....seriously. When you fake or flake....its bad for the whole community.

4. GOOD THINGS CUM TO THOSE WHO WAIT....Great sex is like a fine wine, it takes TIME to develop. A lot of women here want to at least get to know some stuff about you. They want CHEMISTRY, not just cock. So don't just start out using lame lines like "Hey wanna fuck?" or "Can I come over and let you suck my cock?" Would you say that to a lady face to face, I seriously doubt it and if you would, you're an idiot. I'm not saying you have to wine and dine her, no. I have had experiences that ended with a wonderful romp in the sheets after the first hour of meeting and having coffee BUT there was ALWAYS a connection that took some time to develop. So take your time, if they like you, they aren't going anywhere.

5. The most important thing I have learned....DON'T LIE..EVENTUALLY THEY WILL FIND OUT... Cause guess what fellas THEY ARE SMARTER THAN WE ARE! Women love honesty, and the most important thing for great sex is if they know the truth...You don't have to reveal every little secret about your life, but if she asks, tell the truth. Almost EVERY woman I have met on here regardless of what or who they are looking for want the most women, Truth is an aphrodisiac that will make you sexier than the liar with a great body....Seriously. I know this FIRST hand....

So there you have it, my top 5. Be safe, have fun and most of all, use common sense and don't be a dick.

If you care to comment, please do so respectfully so I don't have to kick you out. Thanks!

BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
3/29/2017 4:08 am

Very good post. Other than numbers one, I think your advice applies to everyone. Thanks for sharing.

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Amarone4me 52F  
1 post
9/23/2018 10:15 pm

I just read this...I knew you were a smart cookie. Very nicely said.

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