Just Because  

sexyldy1000 61F  
10453 posts
9/8/2021 5:54 pm
Just Because



sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/8/2021 6:01 pm

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How do you handle the negatives in your life?
Are you able to rise above them and move on?


Paulxx001 64M  
22494 posts
9/8/2021 6:24 pm

Negative people are easy to avoid.
Negative thoughts are dodged with practise.
Negative results, require some analysis.
It's all about how long those moments last. It's a challenge, occasionally.
Yep....


kiss4220 32F

9/8/2021 6:27 pm

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scoupe42 58M  
13027 posts
9/8/2021 7:32 pm

I like it!


superbjversion2 66F
24165 posts
9/8/2021 8:25 pm

I've had my share of negatives. But I realized, long ago, that there is always someone worse off than I am and then my stuff doesn't seem as bad.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


lickeyzsplit 59M  
1490 posts
9/9/2021 5:32 am

Had my share of challenges in the past year as we all do We can only carry on as best we can .... hold our head up cry a little ... enjoy our memories of better days ..enjoy the little day to day things and build ourselves up again ... and know that there are people out there that truly care about you !!! xoxo hope your day is wonderful xoxo


dell9600 65M  
1410 posts
9/9/2021 6:32 am

There is always something to be happy about. If we are having a shitty day, just be glad you woke up......


p1947q 75M  
139 posts
9/9/2021 7:55 am

I think we all face positive and negative moments every day. Yes. some days are loaded with positives, some days are loaded with negatives but every day is a learning experience. I take a personal inventory every night - what was my role in creating the negative experience, what was my role in creating the positive experience; what did I do right, what could I have done better in dealing with those positive and negative experiences. Then make adjustments to minimize the negatives, or at least my response to those negatives, continue to enhance what I did regarding the positives.


Tmptrzz 59F  
106253 posts
9/9/2021 10:02 am

Such great words as they really do make life so much easier for all of us if we practice them daily in our lives. I hope your Thursday is a Thrilling one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:07 pm

OK. What do you like about it?


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:11 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I've had my share of negatives. But I realized, long ago, that there is always someone worse off than I am and then my stuff doesn't seem as bad.
Yes, often there are others worse off. It depends on just how Bad stuff is that is happening.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:13 pm

    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    Had my share of challenges in the past year as we all do We can only carry on as best we can .... hold our head up cry a little ... enjoy our memories of better days ..enjoy the little day to day things and build ourselves up again ... and know that there are people out there that truly care about you !!! xoxo hope your day is wonderful xoxo
There's no doubt, a lot of people have had a tough past year +. How each person is able to cope, overcome and move on is the difference. Thank you for sharing your perspective and words of encouragement.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:14 pm

    Quoting dell9600:
    There is always something to be happy about. If we are having a shitty day, just be glad you woke up......
Yep, that's certainly one way to approach things.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:17 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Negative people are easy to avoid.
    Negative thoughts are dodged with practise.
    Negative results, require some analysis.
    It's all about how long those moments last. It's a challenge, occasionally.
    Yep....
There are many things that are much more than mere ' moments. Hence the challenge is not simply "occasionally"


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:20 pm

    Quoting p1947q:
    I think we all face positive and negative moments every day. Yes. some days are loaded with positives, some days are loaded with negatives but every day is a learning experience. I take a personal inventory every night - what was my role in creating the negative experience, what was my role in creating the positive experience; what did I do right, what could I have done better in dealing with those positive and negative experiences. Then make adjustments to minimize the negatives, or at least my response to those negatives, continue to enhance what I did regarding the positives.
It takes practice, belief and determination to be willing and able to take a daily personal inventory as you describe. No doubt, others could benefit from having such discipline. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/9/2021 5:21 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Such great words as they really do make life so much easier for all of us if we practice them daily in our lives. I hope your Thursday is a Thrilling one..
I can't say today was thrilling. Being back at work has been tiring and I will be glad to get through tomorrow so I can relax over the weekend


lonlyforlove2 79M  
30454 posts
9/9/2021 6:24 pm

Just because:
The sun will come up, even if it rains.
The grass grows and I have to mow it, makes it look so good.
Every thing has two sides , always look for he one that is positive..
I get to lay down in comfort, knowing that even if I don't awake, I think I will be in a
good place..

Some very good thoughts were place here by a lot of nice people, Have a good evening, be safe..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see [post 4432866]
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


justskin1 70M
13066 posts
9/10/2021 2:38 pm

Being positive is a choice as is seeing the good stuff in life even when crap is happening around or to you. It is one thing to deal with the negatives and quite another to let negatives wrap you up so you cannot see good things.
Sometimes those are just others wearing something colorful with a smile or seeing a bit of Nature that brightens your soul. The more you look for such the more you find and it becomes a default mode to see such things even when your problems want to smother you.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/10/2021 11:08 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Just because:
    The sun will come up, even if it rains.
    The grass grows and I have to mow it, makes it look so good.
    Every thing has two sides , always look for he one that is positive..
    I get to lay down in comfort, knowing that even if I don't awake, I think I will be in a
    good place..

    Some very good thoughts were place here by a lot of nice people, Have a good evening, be safe..
While everything may have two sides, it can be difficult to identify anything related to it that is positive. I agree there were some great comments which is always a bonus 😊. Safety continues to be the top priority!


sexyldy1000 61F  
9574 posts
9/10/2021 11:10 pm

    Quoting justskin1:
    Being positive is a choice as is seeing the good stuff in life even when crap is happening around or to you. It is one thing to deal with the negatives and quite another to let negatives wrap you up so you cannot see good things.
    Sometimes those are just others wearing something colorful with a smile or seeing a bit of Nature that brightens your soul. The more you look for such the more you find and it becomes a default mode to see such things even when your problems want to smother you.
I like how to phrased your comments 😊. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your perspective.


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