Sex Talk Myths vs Reality  

sexyldy1000 60F  
10213 posts
8/28/2021 11:26 am
Sex Talk Myths vs Reality



Thanks to porn, sex hook-up sites and 'urban myths', sexual misinformation can abound. Here's some factual information that may surprise you.



Women Get Erections Too
Women actually get erections in their genitals. Even though they’re smaller than the male counterpart, they are just as important, says Sadie Allison, DHS, a sexologist, founder of Tickle Kitty and author of Tickle His Pickle–Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. “The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused,” she explains. “You can observe this—just look at your clitoris or touch it when you’re aroused and it will be bigger.”



A Headache Doesn't Lessen Everyone's Mood
Contrary to the popular cliché, “Not tonight, I have a headache,” one study found that not all headache sufferers avoid sexual activity. In fact, migraine sufferers reported higher levels of sexual desire according to the research done by the Wake Forest University School of Medicine and colleagues. Why? “Our study suggests that sexual desire and migraine headaches may be influenced by the same brain chemical,” said Timothy Houle, Ph.D., lead author and research assistant professor of anesthesiology



The Clitoris Is Way Bigger Than You Think It Is
In addition to the part of the clitoris you can see, there’s a much larger part, called the clitoral urethral vaginal complex that is nderneath the skin that also engorges with arousal, says Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator and sex coach and author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. When a woman is aroused, the vaginal canal also lengthens as the uterus is pulled further upward into the body, the angle often changing as well. “Not only is this fascinating, but it’s one of the reasons that waiting for full arousal means having more pleasurable sex; sex is best when your body is ready,” she says.



The G spot Exists. Except It Doesn’t
“G spot" is a misnomer, as what we consider the ‘spot’ isn’t a discrete anatomical entity. Instead, it’s an area of the urethral sponge that is highly sensitive for many people. But bodies and arousal are complex, and there’s no sure-fire technique, or even erogenous zone, that works for everyone. So basically you may have a spot you identify as the G spot but it isn’t a spot and it won’t work the same for every woman



A Big Penis Won’t “stretch out” A Vagina
A weirdly popular myth is that having too much sex or having sex with a large partner or toy can stretch out a woman’s vagina and/or labia. The vaginal canal is a muscle and does not permanently stretch from having accommodated a large penis or toy. The vagina is incredibly resilient and bounces back quickly. Also, the shape and size of the labia are unique to each woman and are not indicative of her sexual status or history.



Penis Girth Is More Important Than Length
Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. The vagina mainly is covered in stretch mechanoreceptors, which means that girth (or width) is a more important aspect of the penis for women, on average,” according to Nicole Prause, PhD, a sexual physiology researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles, and licensed psychologist.



More Thrusting Does Not Equal More Fun
Forget what you see in porn, “pounding”, or fast, hard thrusting, doesn’t turn most women on and it can actually cause pain and injury. The most common place women experience pain during sex is in the vulvar vestibule, just under the opening to the vagina, where a thin skin stretches underneath the opening that is very vulnerable to abrasion and tearing. This is why generally women do not benefit from (or want) prolonged ‘pounding,’ which just drags the penis repeatedly across this area, creating painful friction fairly quickly.


Masturbation Is Bad For You
Some masturbation myths are that it can make a man go blind; that it can lead to erectile dysfunction; and that it can cause sexual dysfunction in women.
In fact, specialists argue that there’s no such thing as masturbating too often and that it actually brings a plethora of health benefits, including released tension, eased menstrual cramps, and, no less importantly, a “roadmap for [the] body,”


A Cucumber Is Not A Sex Toy
Silicone, steel, Pyrex, glass, or specially laminated wood are the only materials that are actually safe for use inside your body. Toys made with vinyl, latex or a combination of these with other plastics (for example, a silicone-jelly mix) are not considered to be safe for skin contact and should only be used with a condom.


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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 11:32 am

Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel?

Another one that is so false is that you Must orgasm in order to feel sexually fulfilled. Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.

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easyrider4008 65M
2457 posts
8/28/2021 11:53 am

Thanks for the lesson on my favourite subject, women's sexual pleasure.


Tmptrzz 59F  
104079 posts
8/28/2021 12:30 pm

What great information about sex myths they are so true especially the one about headaches. Sex can actually make your headache go away in some cases, and it's a great de-stresser as well.

I had to laugh at the cucumber one, I would much rather eat them myself, as they are so very good for you. They are very good for hydration and have lots of nutrients in them as well.

Thanks for the interesting read today and I hope your enjoying your Saturday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39294 posts
8/28/2021 12:41 pm

Good post. I think the clitoris erect beats an erect cock hands down!


lonlyforlove2 78M
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8/28/2021 12:59 pm

Good Afternoon Young Lady.. It has been years since I seen a Post of this magnitude, we at one time had a blogger that would post informational post , but she was run off..

Some information is well known others are not so, thanks for the schooling.. Even an old dog can learn!!!!

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Paulxx001 64M
21898 posts
8/28/2021 2:28 pm

Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *)
So I'll take a shot.😎

Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮

I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍

Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔
It's been a while. 😶

Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 2:59 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *)
    So I'll take a shot.😎

    Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮

    I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍

    Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔
    It's been a while. 😶

    Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗
Well that is strange because it definitely shows on my version.
Here’s what my comment was:

Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel?

Another one that is so false is that you Must orgasm in order to feel sexually fulfilled. Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 3:04 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *)
    So I'll take a shot.😎

    Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮

    I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍

    Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔
    It's been a while. 😶

    Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗
Yes, vaginas are more flexible than many realize. Both my kids were just under 10 pounds and were delivered by C-section because of concerns they wouldn’t have fit through. No, I would never ask if you have seen one. I doubt your daughters were immaculate conceptions 😊. Pictures and diagrams show more than mere words ever can.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 3:05 pm

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    Thanks for the lesson on my favourite subject, women's sexual pleasure.
I had a feeling you would enjoy this post 👍😊. Thanks for dropping by and confirming.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 3:08 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    What great information about sex myths they are so true especially the one about headaches. Sex can actually make your headache go away in some cases, and it's a great de-stresser as well.

    I had to laugh at the cucumber one, I would much rather eat them myself, as they are so very good for you. They are very good for hydration and have lots of nutrients in them as well.

    Thanks for the interesting read today and I hope your enjoying your Saturday..
I can’t believe what some people will use as sex toys! My reaction to those pics and videos is usually 😱 OMG that looks painful and what were they thinking 🤔?

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 3:10 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Good post. I think the clitoris erect beats an erect cock hands down!
Sounds like the words of a dedicated connoisseur!

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Granny872 69F  
4034 posts
8/28/2021 3:10 pm

WOMEN DO NOT APPRECIATE A MAN ASKING THEM "DID YOU CUM?"

Yep, most annoying thing a man can do during or after sex, lol, except maybe getting up immediately afterwards and packing it up to leave. 😕


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 3:13 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Good Afternoon Young Lady.. It has been years since I seen a Post of this magnitude, we at one time had a blogger that would post informational post , but she was run off..

    Some information is well known others are not so, thanks for the schooling.. Even an old dog can learn!!!!
Thank you for the compliment. You know I enjoy posting about a variety of subjects and am not locked into a set “formula”. I think people are never too old to learn. When you stop learning, you stop living!

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slobberpuss1 73M
62 posts
8/28/2021 3:26 pm

Thank you for the information you provided, very informative.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 4:19 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    WOMEN DO NOT APPRECIATE A MAN ASKING THEM "DID YOU CUM?"

    Yep, most annoying thing a man can do during or after sex, lol, except maybe getting up immediately afterwards and packing it up to leave. 😕
Yes, definitely agree that question is so annoying and unnecessary! Shouldn’t he know? I don’t recall ever asking a man that question!

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 4:20 pm

    Quoting slobberpuss1:
    Thank you for the information you provided, very informative.
Thanks for stopping by, reading and commenting 😊.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 4:26 pm

Thanks, I think 🤔

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redrockrascal 63M
23347 posts
8/28/2021 5:04 pm

Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men.

Whoever wrote that should read some of the women's profiles here.

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1salesman3 66M
6930 posts
8/28/2021 5:22 pm

Thank you so much for your post. Admire those who has the desire and will to research. I love to learn. Wishing you a great weekend.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 7:21 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men.

    Whoever wrote that should read some of the women's profiles here.
Yes I have seen some of those “size queens” and wondered how real they are.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/28/2021 7:25 pm

    Quoting 1salesman3:
    Thank you so much for your post. Admire those who has the desire and will to research. I love to learn. Wishing you a great weekend.
Thank you for the compliment and good wishes. I enjoy sharing information that I find interesting. We had some wicked thunderstorms tonight. I am thankful there wasn’t any damage in my area other that a short power outage. Enjoy the rest of your weekend 😊

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boobwhisperer69 58M  
7831 posts
8/28/2021 8:01 pm

Yall are more complex than Chinese arithmetic!!!!!!!


Magicman19772134 44M
172 posts
8/28/2021 9:08 pm

Good stuff, thanks for sharing!


Jules1590 53F
7941 posts
8/28/2021 9:44 pm

Fascinating. Thank you for sharing SexyLady.
I always thought I was a bit deviant that I could have a raging headache but be horny. "I'd say what's wrong with me... how could I be turned on right now?"

And rubbing out a small orgasm did nothing to ameliorate the pain.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/29/2021 3:10 am

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    Yall are more complex than Chinese arithmetic!!!!!!!
Who? Us, women? No, it just takes some effort
Nice to see you stop by.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/29/2021 3:33 am

Glad you enjoyed reading it 😊. Thanks for stopping by. Perhaps you will again.

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/29/2021 3:36 am

    Quoting Jules1590:
    Fascinating. Thank you for sharing SexyLady.
    I always thought I was a bit deviant that I could have a raging headache but be horny. "I'd say what's wrong with me... how could I be turned on right now?"

    And rubbing out a small orgasm did nothing to ameliorate the pain.
Glad you enjoyed this post and learned something new. It’s a bonus when others take the time to read and comment 😊.

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WyoCowboy7751 68M
2326 posts
8/29/2021 5:17 am

"Masturbation Is Bad For You" "specialists argue that there’s no such thing as masturbating too often and that it actually brings a plethora of health benefits" I have had Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) — also called prostate gland enlargement ( non cancerous) for about 15 years . Early on in treatment besides Medication ; I was told by my Urologist that , besides remaining Sexually Active ; that Masturbation also Stimulates the Prostate and can be a factor in Helping maintain against Further enlargement . The Last Resort would be Surgically Down Sizing or Removal of the Prostate !! As I mentioned ; 15 years and still Hanging in Check ; No Smaller, No Larger !!! Since Intercourse has been a non-factor with significant other, due too her medical condition or with other gals ; I Masturbate a minimum of twice a week weather it be by hand or using a FleshLight !!! 🤠


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/29/2021 6:24 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    "Masturbation Is Bad For You" "specialists argue that there’s no such thing as masturbating too often and that it actually brings a plethora of health benefits" I have had Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) — also called prostate gland enlargement ( non cancerous) for about 15 years . Early on in treatment besides Medication ; I was told by my Urologist that , besides remaining Sexually Active ; that Masturbation also Stimulates the Prostate and can be a factor in Helping maintain against Further enlargement . The Last Resort would be Surgically Down Sizing or Removal of the Prostate !! As I mentioned ; 15 years and still Hanging in Check ; No Smaller, No Larger !!! Since Intercourse has been a non-factor with significant other, due too her medical condition or with other gals ; I Masturbate a minimum of twice a week weather it be by hand or using a FleshLight !!! 🤠
Wow - sounds like you have been through challenging times and have found the best way to deal with them. Thank you for stopping by, validating one of the points mentioned and sharing your story.

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1seeking1 56F
3747 posts
8/30/2021 2:21 pm

Thanks for the refresher, in my case sex, orgasm can cure a headache . Since canal does lengthen, so many delightful spots, not just gspot, and that is where the length of penis matters to reach those deep spots. Call me size princess 😉


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
8/31/2021 8:46 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Thanks for the refresher, in my case sex, orgasm can cure a headache . Since canal does lengthen, so many delightful spots, not just gspot, and that is where the length of penis matters to reach those deep spots. Call me size princess 😉
Every woman reacts differently to the length ad girth of a penis. And you are right, hitting the elusive g-spot isn't the only way to bring pleasure. If I could, I would send you a crown as I am sure you would wear it well

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