You Are Not Everyones Cup of Tea  

sexyldy1000 60F  
10213 posts
3/4/2021 12:15 pm
You Are Not Everyones Cup of Tea



The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you.

Don't waste your precious time trying t.o convince people who aren't your people that you have value. They won't get it. They never will.

You are not for them and they are not for you. You are not their cup of tea and they are not yours.

But the world is also filled with those who will adore everything about you. Those who love you: they are your people.

Not everyone will like you....but not everyone matters.

Be who you are. You are not every's cup of tea but you will be someone's glass of champagne




Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/4/2021 12:25 pm

Being true to yourself is what matters the most. Can you look at yourself in the mirror and be proud of who is looking back at you?

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


Tmptrzz 59F  
104079 posts
3/4/2021 12:29 pm

This is brilliant and so very true, thanks for sharing this with all of us, now I just hope everyone reads it. I hope your Thursday is treating you well..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/4/2021 12:43 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is brilliant and so very true, thanks for sharing this with all of us, now I just hope everyone reads it. I hope your Thursday is treating you well..
I had seen this sentiment previously in celebration of International Women's Day. As it is coming up soon, I thought the timing was appropriate.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


flannel_light 59F  
4197 posts
3/4/2021 1:08 pm

You are so right . Thank you for sharing. I hope everyone reads this.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Apollo602021 61M  
3681 posts
3/4/2021 1:12 pm

For some people too my cup is unfortunately always half-full too!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


grizz54545454 74M  
354 posts
3/4/2021 1:23 pm

true


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/4/2021 1:38 pm

Humility is what I see when I glance at that glass. I'll let Hybris cherish 'pride' and its afflictions.

I don't seek affirmation of my value in the opinions of others. Everyone is entitled to their own impressions.๐Ÿ˜Š


RavenGB 60M
1408 posts
3/4/2021 2:24 pm

Quite so. It also means that no matter how much of an acquired taste you may be, somebody, somewhere is a perfect fit for you.


HermanG67 54M
8462 posts
3/4/2021 2:26 pm

SPOT ON

that is why I drink COFFEE


EroticMusings2 57F  
548 posts
3/4/2021 2:44 pm

Very Well said. Different flavors and variations for everyone.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


Jules1590 53F
7941 posts
3/4/2021 3:15 pm

Great post.

I have often referred to myself with that very metaphor, "I am not everyone's cup of tea" and I don't need to be. Everyone has a preference and a taste. I know I certainly have mine.

While I know "I am not everyone's cup of tea," to be true, in retrospect after reading your post I realize when I say it there is sometimes a hint of a self-deprecating apology. Which is rather ridiculous, right? lol. Chalk it up to a rough childhood...

Henceforth, it will be said with a shrug, " I am not everyone's cup of tea... and that's... o-kay." And mean it!


lickeyzsplit 59M  
1411 posts
3/4/2021 5:18 pm

Its finding that special cup of tea that is called our journey through life some are lucky enough to find that person others search endlessly . xoxo Love your thought provoking posts !


easyrider4008 65M
2458 posts
3/5/2021 6:00 am

So true and so difficult in work situations


takeout42 66M  
41 posts
3/5/2021 10:32 am

That my dear, wakes you up and slaps the sense back in you. Well said as always..


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 12:56 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    You are so right . Thank you for sharing. I hope everyone reads this.
Sometimes things that should be obvious, simply aren't. Thank you for stopping by.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 12:57 pm

    Quoting Apollo602021:
    For some people too my cup is unfortunately always half-full too!
Oh? Sounds like a bit of a dilemma or perhaps a challenge?

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 12:58 pm

I thought so and that's why I decided to post about it.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:07 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Humility is what I see when I glance at that glass. I'll let Hybris cherish 'pride' and its afflictions.

    I don't seek affirmation of my value in the opinions of others. Everyone is entitled to their own impressions.๐Ÿ˜Š
I think you meant hubris which is defined as excessive pride or self-confidence. Other people's impressions can differ from an individual's view of themselves. Choosing to accept or refute them is optional.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:08 pm

    Quoting RavenGB:
    Quite so. It also means that no matter how much of an acquired taste you may be, somebody, somewhere is a perfect fit for you.
Precisely . Thanks for stopping by.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:10 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    SPOT ON

    that is why I drink COFFEE


.. I am a tea drinker, always have been.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:12 pm

    Quoting EroticMusings2:
    Very Well said. Different flavors and variations for everyone.
Imagine how boring life would be if everyone was exactly the same? Thanks for stopping by and becoming a "watcher".

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:15 pm

    Quoting Jules1590:
    Great post.

    I have often referred to myself with that very metaphor, "I am not everyone's cup of tea" and I don't need to be. Everyone has a preference and a taste. I know I certainly have mine.

    While I know "I am not everyone's cup of tea," to be true, in retrospect after reading your post I realize when I say it there is sometimes a hint of a self-deprecating apology. Which is rather ridiculous, right? lol. Chalk it up to a rough childhood...

    Henceforth, it will be said with a shrug, " I am not everyone's cup of tea... and that's... o-kay." And mean it!
Intuitively, I had a feeling you would understand what this was all about . Thanks for stopping by and confirming your perspective. It's a phrase that has been in my lexicon for a long time

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Um, OK if you say so.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:19 pm

    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    Its finding that special cup of tea that is called our journey through life some are lucky enough to find that person others search endlessly . xoxo Love your thought provoking posts !
Often when people look too hard, they never find it. Thank you for sharing your perspective and supporting my blog

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:19 pm

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    So true and so difficult in work situations
Yes, it's applicable in a variety of situations.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 1:20 pm

    Quoting takeout42:
    That my dear, wakes you up and slaps the sense back in you. Well said as always..
Yes a dose of reality is often needed. Thank you for dropping by

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/5/2021 2:24 pm

No...
I was clear on what I meant to say.

"HYBRIS was the goddess or personified spirit (daimona) of insolence, hubris, violence, reckless pride, arrogance and outrageous behaviour in general. Her Roman name was Petulantia."

I guess, you don't get my point. No worries.

I'll move on.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 3:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    No...
    I was clear on what I meant to say.

    "HYBRIS was the goddess or personified spirit (daimona) of insolence, hubris, violence, reckless pride, arrogance and outrageous behaviour in general. Her Roman name was Petulantia."

    I guess, you don't get my point. No worries.

    I'll move on.
Part of your original point was not clear, hence I looked into it. I did not find the reference you are citing so I drew my own conclusions as to what you meant. Apparently, that was incorrect. It doesnโ€™t negate the rest of my comment.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/5/2021 5:03 pm

Seems like you want me to agree with your pov. NOT! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

I said; "I don't seek affirmation of my value in the opinions of others. Everyone is entitled to their own impressions."

I don't give a FUCK what others think. It's their prerogative to own their perceptions. If I listened to everyone's pov I wouldn't have room for my own.

Acceptance or refusal (as you stated) โ€” for me โ€” is irrelevant. Anyone judging 'moi' can go fuck themselves.

โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 5:22 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Seems like you want me to agree with your pov. NOT! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

    I said; "I don't seek affirmation of my value in the opinions of others. Everyone is entitled to their own impressions."

    I don't give a FUCK what others think. It's their prerogative to own their perceptions. If I listened to everyone's pov I wouldn't have room for my own.

    Acceptance or refusal (as you stated) โ€” for me โ€” is irrelevant. Anyone judging 'moi' can go fuck themselves.

    โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
You misunderstood my response both times. It is quite apparent you donโ€™t care what anyone thinks of you.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/5/2021 5:47 pm

Allah, Buddha, God, the Devil; blah blah blah and all THEIR fucking disciples. I'll fluster about that when I greet those assholes. It'll be too late, for what it's worth.

My family, children and friends and relatives - sure - I care, up to a point.

Anyone else? Random people who don't know me?

Nope...

What's your point? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/5/2021 6:08 pm

Ahhh... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Or is it just a ploy to have a conversation so that you can be featured on the 'most comments' platform on that MAIN page.

lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Understood. I fell for it.

It's all good. ๐Ÿ‘ โ— โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 6:11 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Allah, Buddha, God, the Devil; blah blah blah and all THEIR fucking disciples. I'll fluster about that when I greet those assholes. It'll be too late, for what it's worth.

    My family, children and friends and relatives - sure - I care, up to a point.

    Anyone else? Random people who don't know me?

    Nope...

    What's your point? ๐Ÿค”
You already said, "I don't give a FUCK what others think." I simply acknowledged that you don't.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 6:52 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Or is it just a ploy to have a conversation so that you can be featured on the 'most comments' platform on that MAIN page.

    lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Understood. I fell for it.

    It's all good. ๐Ÿ‘ โ— โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž
Absolutely NOT. That's a ploy that you are known for using. Just like commenting on your own blog to try and keep it from dropping off that page. You kept coming back and asking a question, so I was obliged to respond.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
3/5/2021 7:11 pm

or delete them ALL (my comments) and prove me wrong. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Ooops... THAT'S not gonna happen. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

40...๐Ÿ˜Š


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 8:29 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    or delete them ALL (my comments) and prove me wrong. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Ooops... THAT'S not gonna happen. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

    40...๐Ÿ˜Š
Gee, three comments ago, you said you would move on. So why havenโ€™t you? Do us both a favour and stay off my blog.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/5/2021 10:36 pm

Poof! Stopped watching my blog and unfriended me. No tears from me.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


hammer2it 34M
17 posts
3/9/2021 8:53 am

true, good read


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/9/2021 9:11 am

Thanks for stopping by and reading them ๐Ÿ˜Š

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


agelesssexylegs 78F
1051 posts
3/15/2021 1:14 am

So very true and if we were all like the same wants,desires it would be a boring old world


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
3/15/2021 2:29 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    So very true and if we were all like the same wants,desires it would be a boring old world
Thank goodness we are not all the same. I doubt places like this would exist if we were!

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


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