So I've been pondering the idea of becoming i paid member. I can't respond most IM's or messages. I have never had for sex interest. But do virus I'm unable go usual rout of making new friends So that's why i checked this site out. I've seen work around for contacting members etc.. Like most members use id as id communicate. In your opinion is worth the money upgrade?? I'm very interested in your opinion. Please be respectful and honest. Thank you for reading !!