My place or your place?  

sussi1028 61F
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10/18/2008 12:08 pm

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My place or your place?

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DirectCurrent57 63M

12/21/2008 8:26 pm

If a guy isn't smart enough to read a womans profile and figure out which approach to take, You shouldn't waste your time with a response. And yes, there are women on this site that respond to style of corespondance.

ALABAMA4U2007 66M/61F
4 posts
3/31/2009 6:03 am

I have had good luck with men and do not want to play games on the computer. I am on this site to get laid not to talk for hours and hours before I ask a guy does he want to fuck me. If I dont go to bed with them another female will. Tonya

RunninBunny 66M
281 posts
4/8/2009 6:36 am

Some people just don't have any imagination or can't be bothered to try to connect at a level higher than their crutch. The brain is our biggest & most stimulating erogenous zone & should be excited just as much as any other part of the body. In fact if the brain isn't switched on, then the rest of the body can't function to it's highest potential.
Guys that write in the way that you describe, are just as likely to act is the same manor, sex with no imagination is not good sex! To be avoided at all costs. But saying this, I have have similar mail from your sisters, so it is not just a gender problem.


Life is for living, so make the most of it, DON'T WASTE IT

free3004 64M
203 posts
5/23/2009 10:52 pm

it is because people has no much time to develope a good friendship and because some people think tht on is much easier to pick up a person and have sex in 3 is not like that!
we have to spend and share some of our time and see if we matches first..if alchemy works..and so on
you are so nice babe!

nocharisma 52M

6/3/2009 11:38 am

I cant ever imagine it working for me. I am reasonably confident about my looks and do get laid. But I have never gotten laid without putting in effort at gettng to know the woman a little bit.

Maybe I dont look hot enough...its a shame that it happens. It shows disrespect as well as it implies shallowness on the man.

spwildbill77 63M  
83 posts
7/10/2009 9:57 pm

I have to smile. I have see it and heard about it and it is exactly as you say. What I have also found out is that guys can be very normal until they get aroused beyond the half way point. At that time, they sit down at their computer, stroking their cock, getting super horny. It is at times like these that men stop thinking with their head - maybe its a blood thing - and start doing and saying things they would rarely, if ever, say in person. 5 minutes later he cums all over his own hand and resorts back to being a regular person. In his wake are 20 messages to 20 women, all saying pretty much the same thing. "I'm ready now, wanna fuck?" It is almost cartoonish. It may start out of the thin plot porno movies. Some slut wandering around the house half naked, picks up the phone and calls a friend to come over. He arrives 30 seconds later.

discreteSteve62 52M
2170 posts
10/10/2009 2:06 pm

Once, before I met my girlfriend, I saw an ad that said, in essence, "I'm snowed in and I need it now." It was in a place where practically no one knows how to drive in snow because it rarely snows. I wrote back saying that I know how to drive in snow, I have a snow shovel in my trunk, and I can be there as soon as I shovel my car out of the driveway. Less than a half hour later, I had a date. Less than an hour later, I was shoveled out of my driveway enough to get to the open road. After less than an hour's driving, I was at her place. She answered the door wearing nothing but a beach towel.

I was sweaty and smelly from all the shoveling, so I asked her whether she wanted me sweaty or clean. She opted for clean, and showed me to her shower. I said she was welcome to join me in the shower, and she did; although we didn't play in the shower, that gave us some time to get comfortable with each other.

Anyway, in that case it was only about three hours from when I saw the ad until we were drying off, slipping into her bed together, and putting on the condom.

However, I know that's an exceptional situation. Most of the time, women aren't snowed in and desperate for sex. Most of the time, if they are, someone else answers the ad sooner. Even if I were still on the market for that sort of encounter, I would be surprised if it ever happened again like that.

Realistically, I expect that finding a suitable partner will take time. The more picky one is about the sort of encounter one seeks, the longer it takes. The more picky one is about the sort of partner one seeks, the longer it takes.

Men who expect to find someone online and be playing with her three hours later are being ridiculously unrealistic. Even in the case I described, although the time from first contact to physical contact was short, it took a long time to find someone who even replied my attempted contact messages. Men who think it's going to be a quick and easy search, and fail to respect the fact that most women are selective, are going to end up with two problems: one, they're not going to get any action, and two, they're going to leave a long trail of women who are offended by disrespectful attempts to make contact.

redduracell 50M
881 posts
11/23/2011 4:28 am

Sussi you haven't posted for some time, are you alright?

guitar842 63M
20 posts
11/30/2011 12:10 pm

i'm a well mannered eater.

JackHofff 70M  
716 posts
12/30/2011 11:21 am

If all I want is sex, then I already have my right hand and that can take care of things very well. If I want a good time, then I'd like to do it with one or more others. I'd like to be able to talk to any partner both before and after; if the conversation is all about sex, that is all right, but other subjects can be fun, too!

Some years back, I remember being in a hotel room with a couple. After the wife and I were done, I wound up talking to the husband for several hours, the wife joined in when she wasn't fucking others. It was VERY interesting -- and a lot of fun for all three of us! I wish I had contact information for them...

XLtoolin 42M
6 posts
4/10/2012 11:03 pm

Yeah I try to know a little bit more before jumping in the sack

4fun2only2012 61M
280 posts
2/24/2013 1:34 pm

24-FEB-2013.. Dear lady ...
I am in Anaheim Ca (near Disneyland).
I am just another sex starved straight male looking for sex .
I am 51, uncut, sincere, non smoker.
No Drugs, No Minors, No cash involved, No Pain, No kinky stuff.
A blow-job is welcome, Not a Must.
I love vaginal sex .
I like to lick and kiss Tits
I would like to meet a married female from California.
Everyday, the people just want to chat, and chat ...people, do not want to meet ...
It is difficult to meet a married female or couple, just for sex ..

laxajf25 32M

12/22/2016 5:19 am

Boys to send "Let's fuck now. ###-###-####" likely have a success rate of around 0.25%. And while that seems low, these boys take the "volume approach," knowing that it's just a numbers game: if I message (copy/paste) messages to 400 women, I'll get laid! Unfortunately, desperation comes into play and these boys really do get laid. Someone is bound to reply--big or small, male or female, gay or straight...

As for the women that do reply to those types of messages, you might just pity their desperation. It's a shame that she/they are in such a desperate moment that they'll take anyone at anytime.

However, I must admit that I have played on an (almost) instant whim. I relied on testimonials and my good ol' crazy-radar to determine if I was making a good decision--and that decision turned out incredible for that friendship to flourish...

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 61M
3847 posts
4/2/2018 9:35 pm

Most guys THINK a reply that will get them laid quicker & more often, but I have never heard of that working for anyone. BUT, there ARE some gals who will post their address openly, make open invites to ANY male, and even go so far as to say door will be unlocked, lites off, and she will be spread wide & naked on the bed, maybe even blindfolded. Now, I have actually checked out a cpl of these, carefully, as I am sure most are robbery setups, most are fake, but I once found one just as advertized, and a waiting line outside her door! I have no idea how many guys she entertained that nite, but am betting she had funn.

Paulxx001 64M
21892 posts
7/4/2018 8:08 am

Hmmm. Good question. U asked it so long ago... I'd say guys r more up front, and more desperate as they are refused and fail at other sites... I don't think women give out their numbers... Lol. What's your number and let's discuss this firther.. Lol yep!

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