Guys, listen up. Tips and tricks on HOW to 'score' on AFF...  

tazzerman2000 63M
7254 posts
12/21/2009 5:03 am
Guys, listen up. Tips and tricks on HOW to 'score' on AFF...



This post is for all you would be 'Lotharios' and horn-dogs out here trying to get hooked up with one of the fine ladies of TSdates.com.

I've been here on TSdates.com for 9 years now and yes, I've had both my share of success and rejection. I have learned quite a bit in those 9 years about how to behave on this site towards other people and what 'works' especially in regards to meeting women and I am offering to share this knowledge with you out of the goodness of my own heart. LOL

Well that and I does tend to drive me crazy seeing some of the ‘stuff’ you guys try and pull.

So with all that said AND knowing that your attention span is about as long as your dick is, here in no particular order, are Tazzerman’s Rules of Etiquette:

READ the woman’s profile. The gals out here for the most part, tend to write those things honestly AND in hopes that you will in fact read them fully BEFORE you attempt to contact them. If the girls profile says that she’s not into married men and you’re married, don’t try to hit on her ANYWAY! If it says that she’s only looking for guys within say 50 miles of where she lives and you live 4000 miles away, don’t HIT on her. Use some common sense.

Be honest. I can NOT stress this enough. There’s NO reason to lie out here. If you do, eventually the truth WILL come out and trust me dude, the women on this site DO in fact talk to each other. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.

Do NOT, under any circumstances, write an initial email to a girl that tells her just how a) good you are at licking pussy, b) how big your dick is, c) what a great lover you are, d) how many OTHER woman you’ve fucked in your lifetime, e) what you plan on doing to her for days and days on end. Don’t DO IT! Treat her with respect from the outset. Let HER determine how and when you might or might not get involved either physically or virtually.

Keep in mind at ALL times that the person on the other end of your messages is in fact a REAL PERSON! You do have the ‘luxury’ of hiding behind the internet and your screen but that doesn’t give you a license to be a total jack ass.

Use a fucking spell checker and take a little extra time to put together some coherent sentences. Text speech is almost ALWAYS an instant turn off. Most of the women on this site are very intelligent and they do actually look for that in most of the guys they’re interested in.

Do NOT believe the advertising on this site. You will NOT get laid tonight. PERIOD! It isn’t going to happen… The best way to proceed here is to know full well that it is in fact going to take a bit of time and effort on your part to connect with someone.

Read their blog if they have one. There is NO better way to get to know some of the gorgeous ladies out here than to read their blogs. Most of the blog writers out here pour their heart and soul into those posts. Start your OWN blog. Let people know who you are and hopefully you ARE a nice guy and not in fact some asshole.

Realize that the woman of your dreams can come in just about any and all shapes, sizes, colors and types. There is NO SUCH THING as an ugly woman and if you think there is, well let’s just say you have a LOT to learn.

Keep in mind that the women on this site are under NO obligation what so ever to acknowledge your existence. Like women everywhere, they have the right to ultimately decide who they choose to meet with and why.

Be gracious when confronted with rejection. Do NOT send them some nasty email calling them all manner of names and telling them that it’s their loss. Nine times out of ten, all you’ll end up doing is becoming blog fodder.

Here’s a PERFECT example of what NOT to post in your own blog.

“I'm constantly shocked at the number of profiles i see on this site by women, i won't even take a second glance at saying their picky, want a certain race, or man. Are you kidding me. Are there really that many desparate men on this site that women who are fat, ugly and arrogant can be picky.

It makes me sad.”

Trust me guys, this is NOT the way to garner attention around here... I have purposely NOT identified the guy who wrote this but suffice it to say he’s touched off a total blog swarm with his totally insensitive comment about fat, ugly and arrogant women.. A quick read of both his profile and his blog header is enough to cause most women to run screaming and is a perfect example of go back and do it again…

Women DO like confident, strong ‘alpha’ males BUT there’s a fine line between being one and becoming an ego-centric jerk. Don’t cross it.

I never intended this list to be all encompassing but I think I’ve captured the majority of the issues that need to be addressed. If you can’t or don’t understand these ‘tips’ then I suggest you go elsewhere.

Yes this IS a so called ‘sex site’ but that doesn’t give ytou the right to treat the people here without respect. The gals here on TSdates.com deserve it!

-tm

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rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
2/2/2020 6:24 am

    Quoting fahrenheit451x2:
    Good post overall but your statement: "Keep in mind at ALL times that the person on the other end of your messages is in fact a REAL PERSON!" is in error. You should treat the person on the other end as real but I have caught numerous bots on this site whose sole purpose is to make you rethink the value of a gold membership if you don't have one or to use up your points so you'll buy more. Just follow the money to the truth.
I think you missed the point he is making. Yes, we all get that not everyone is real, but when you write to someone write AS IF they are a real person. That was his point. If you write as if it is a fake and are nasty you COULD be telling off a real person. You want to put your best foot forward not just assume it is a fake or a bot. If you truly believe it is a fake then don't write it at all. That was his point hun. Sorry for the intrusion, but I did want to point that out to you. Enjoy your day!


fahrenheit451x2 61M
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1/24/2020 4:13 am

Good post overall but your statement: "Keep in mind at ALL times that the person on the other end of your messages is in fact a REAL PERSON!" is in error. You should treat the person on the other end as real but I have caught numerous bots on this site whose sole purpose is to make you rethink the value of a gold membership if you don't have one or to use up your points so you'll buy more. Just follow the money to the truth.


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rm_emostwnted 50M
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7/17/2014 3:37 pm

There you go making sense again.Sometimes I just don't know what you're thinking. lmfao. Good post. Good advice that could be put to use in all facets of our lives.


PassionAries412 38M
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1/24/2014 12:00 pm

Excellent post and suggestions. Thank you.


kicking1941 80M

11/8/2013 3:35 pm

I agree wholeheartedly with your points. Even if a "relationship" is only sexual, Respect for the other person is number one in my book !The old adage "Treat people the way you want to be treated" is as true as it ever was.


lookatu2day 72F
47 posts
3/19/2013 11:00 pm

Everything you wrote is the truth, but the world is also full of idiots and dumdums, who not only do not know how to read, they also do not know how to write or spell... but they try anyway...lol.


tazzerman2000 replies on 3/20/2013 2:23 am:
Oh I know. But I had to write it any way

rm_coupsex31 43M/41F
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1/14/2013 2:38 am

most beautiful women on here you could ever be with


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
12/22/2012 7:44 am

    Quoting tazzerman2000:
    Of course I was just being flippant my dear. In all seriousness, the maturity level or lack of I should say, is astounding and yes, that does in fact impact the choices made. Responsibility is a bit part of it also that's for sure... Have you read this post What it means to be a man ? They kind of go hand and hand
I had not read that, THANKS!! That was (as I posted there) Spectacular!! You are one of my favs on here, and totally the things you write show why. Unfortunately too many don't get the things you write, and that is why they fail. You are just awesome hun, never change!! xox


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/22/2012 2:52 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    I honestly don't believe that hun. I think it is an excuse to not be responsible for one's self. Everyone is capable of making choices, just many make bad choices and then don't own up to it. It is sad that people do that and then continually fail. Seriously, they get all ticked off when gay men send them things, they should think how it feels for us to have our profiles ignored. I usually do stress that in order to try and help out the newbies.
Of course I was just being flippant my dear. In all seriousness, the maturity level or lack of I should say, is astounding and yes, that does in fact impact the choices made. Responsibility is a bit part of it also that's for sure... Have you read this post What it means to be a man ? They kind of go hand and hand

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rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
12/21/2012 7:10 am

    Quoting tazzerman2000:
    Thank you! It just goes to show that the old adage is correct: G-d gave men both a brain and a dick BUT only enough blood to run one or the other at a time! -tm
I honestly don't believe that hun. I think it is an excuse to not be responsible for one's self. Everyone is capable of making choices, just many make bad choices and then don't own up to it. It is sad that people do that and then continually fail. Seriously, they get all ticked off when gay men send them things, they should think how it feels for us to have our profiles ignored. I usually do stress that in order to try and help out the newbies.


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/21/2012 3:15 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    Hey Tazz... thought I would let you know. I have a friend who is here for Exhibitionism only. She actually wrote the definition of what exhibitionism is stating that it is only 'showing on cam and not meeting in person or any kind of contact'. She told me and has shown me just how many guys are total jerks and write her anyway and ask her what kind of exhibitionism or what is exhibitionism. Obviously they read enough to see that it is all she is into, but they still try to contact her and get her to meet and all. It is very frustrating for her and I bet others as I know a few here for just showing on cam. No matter how clear they are there is always someone trying to make them do what they don't want yet those men have in caps on their profiles "I am NOT GAY!! NO MEN!!". They don't like it yet they do it to others.... amazing.. and they wonder why they can't get anywhere. You have a great blog hun!!
Thank you! It just goes to show that the old adage is correct: G-d gave men both a brain and a dick BUT only enough blood to run one or the other at a time! -tm

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rdy2try4 56F  
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12/19/2012 7:44 am

Hey Tazz... thought I would let you know. I have a friend who is here for Exhibitionism only. She actually wrote the definition of what exhibitionism is stating that it is only 'showing on cam and not meeting in person or any kind of contact'. She told me and has shown me just how many guys are total jerks and write her anyway and ask her what kind of exhibitionism or what is exhibitionism. Obviously they read enough to see that it is all she is into, but they still try to contact her and get her to meet and all. It is very frustrating for her and I bet others as I know a few here for just showing on cam. No matter how clear they are there is always someone trying to make them do what they don't want yet those men have in caps on their profiles "I am NOT GAY!! NO MEN!!". They don't like it yet they do it to others.... amazing.. and they wonder why they can't get anywhere. You have a great blog hun!!


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/19/2012 4:40 am

    Quoting titsandsmarts:
    As a fat, ugly, arrogant woman on this site, I thank you for writing an amazing post - you wouldn't believe the amount of personal abuse girls on here can get for not answering emails within thirty seconds, declining to pursue a conversation or, indeed, just about anything else: I'm sorely tempted to set up my auto-response with you link!
Awww thanks and feel free to link to this post if you want to. I know it's tough for all of you girls out here. Guys can be so freakin pathetic. -tm

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titsandsmarts 47F  
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12/18/2012 2:22 am

As a fat, ugly, arrogant woman on this site, I thank you for writing an amazing post - you wouldn't believe the amount of personal abuse girls on here can get for not answering emails within thirty seconds, declining to pursue a conversation or, indeed, just about anything else: I'm sorely tempted to set up my auto-response with you link!


tazzerman2000 63M
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12/9/2012 6:15 am

    Quoting  :

Only three? Good job lol -tm

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tazzerman2000 63M
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12/4/2012 3:34 am

    Quoting  :

Absolutely! It's amazing how folks forget that fact once they're online, hiding behind their computer screen isn't it?? Thanks for the thoughts/comment

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MustelaFantasy 31F

7/18/2012 6:59 pm

I have to say this is a great post and amazingly true. I especially love the last part as I can and have been occasioned as arrogant or stuck up when in reality I just didn't see a need to acknowledge the person at hand for their lack of time to sit and read the profile they had to go through to message me...

For now the people call me weird and a freak, but the pages of history will say this about me "Even though she was a bit eccentric, that woman was one of the greatest thinkers in her field of the time"


Han54boat 68M
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8/28/2011 1:31 pm

Lurking


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tazzerman2000 63M
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7/13/2011 3:51 am

LOL you are just TOO funny -tm

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lil_whimsical 51F
8781 posts
6/14/2011 3:10 am

Ok, Tazz ... I finally got around to reading it ... you are right and it's good advice. But I still kinda prefer for the idiots to NOT get the advice, so that I know that they are idiots in that first email that they send!!!

It makes my life so much easier to just hit "delete" on that fist email ... than to find out later they are a jackass after I have an actual conversation with them.


rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
5/1/2011 1:52 pm

TAZZ always good posts hun. I agree.. if MORE only realized that being jerks and arseholes isn't going to work....lol high 5 to you hun.
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LOL @ 10 years of blogs to catch up on. HONESTLY.. my own blogs have been getting hammered with visitors lately too!!
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#1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
#2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
#3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
#4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates


rm_EE407 46F
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1/14/2011 11:30 am

Thank you!!!! What an excellent post...

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SelvriSilver 38F
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12/15/2010 10:41 pm

I totally just posted a link to this in my blog, babe. Love you.

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billybob8u2 65M
14 posts
3/22/2010 10:29 am

I think it's some excellent advice. Men would do well to commit it to memory. I've been on here a while, both with and without partners. I've met some of the most beautiful women on here you could ever be with. Some with partners and some without. Women are truly beautiful. The way they smell, the way they taste, the way they make you feel when you're with them. But then that's always been my problem.


bond10926 56M

3/4/2010 1:34 pm

Very well stated !


69kale69 40M
10 posts
1/30/2010 8:18 pm

Thanks for the advice! Most of what you said seems pretty common sense, but who ever said that common sense is all that common.


rm_puddinghead4 59M
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1/8/2010 3:22 am

What?


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
1/5/2010 8:52 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    GREAT BLOG!! I have to add this to my list I send out. I always do appreciate well thought out things, and you did a great job.

    I would like to add MY links if that is okay.... many of the messages people send out do NOT think and have no clue just how BAD they sound or look to someone. And many have no clue why women are not answering them. There is a myriad of answers to that, but amongst them are one of my blogs, we get flamed for just saying NO. Guys have no clue how inundated women are with messages from as in my case 100-150 messages A DAY and trust me, after the first 5 dick shots, they all BLURR. Followed by if it is Quasimodo owning that dick or a total arrogant pig, we do not CARE what it looks like!! rofl But we can't possibly send out replies of 'no' to each and every one of those, as well as many ARE the exact opposite of what our profile says i.e. married/not.. distances or age.

    But here they are.. have a laugh, a smile, you may get angry, but you will understand better why some are NOT getting laid on here.. LEARN from these..

    #1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
    #2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
    #3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
    #4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates

    Idiots DO ruin it for good guys. **WARNING** These are ALL actual and REAL messages sent out by people that truly DID think it was a good idea at the time. The Darwin Awards are holding places for some of these.
Hopefully, with a concerted effort from ALL of us, we can finally get these fools to understand.. Hope springs eternal within Ol tazzerman..

You have my permission to utilize this post however you deem necessary my dear. -tm

p.s. Btw, in case ANYONE was wondering, this post IS my own. I wrote it, every word. It was NOT copied from elsewhere and I take full ownership...

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rdy2try4 56F  
3305 posts
1/4/2010 2:30 pm

GREAT BLOG!! I have to add this to my list I send out. I always do appreciate well thought out things, and you did a great job.

I would like to add MY links if that is okay.... many of the messages people send out do NOT think and have no clue just how BAD they sound or look to someone. And many have no clue why women are not answering them. There is a myriad of answers to that, but amongst them are one of my blogs, we get flamed for just saying NO. Guys have no clue how inundated women are with messages from as in my case 100-150 messages A DAY and trust me, after the first 5 dick shots, they all BLURR. Followed by if it is Quasimodo owning that dick or a total arrogant pig, we do not CARE what it looks like!! rofl But we can't possibly send out replies of 'no' to each and every one of those, as well as many ARE the exact opposite of what our profile says i.e. married/not.. distances or age.

But here they are.. have a laugh, a smile, you may get angry, but you will understand better why some are NOT getting laid on here.. LEARN from these..

#1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
#2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
#3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
#4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates

Idiots DO ruin it for good guys. **WARNING** These are ALL actual and REAL messages sent out by people that truly DID think it was a good idea at the time. The Darwin Awards are holding places for some of these.


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
1/4/2010 4:24 am

    Quoting behindcloseddrs2:
    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! I wish I could use this blog as my automatic reply. I just received an email from someone under my age range who lumped sentences into one LONG run-on without punctuation or capitalization. I had to re-read and take a breath where I thought the end of the sentence would be. Then he wonders why no one responds.
Feel free to link and/or use this post however you with. You CAN put it into your auto replies. Simply add the following:

Guys, listen up Tips and tricks on HOW to 'score' on AFF

xoxo -tm

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behindcloseddrs2 59F

1/3/2010 11:34 pm

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! I wish I could use this blog as my automatic reply. I just received an email from someone under my age range who lumped sentences into one LONG run-on without punctuation or capitalization. I had to re-read and take a breath where I thought the end of the sentence would be. Then he wonders why no one responds.


rudedude116 45M

1/3/2010 5:35 am

thanks for the advice, now back to plotting how to bed the girls,
happy new year


justforfun2374 40M

1/2/2010 10:50 pm

thanks great addvice.


thedonorblock 30M
32 posts
1/2/2010 7:56 pm

good advice might use some


VERGA20ctrs 41M
31 posts
1/2/2010 7:55 pm

good comment ... thanks for sharing ..


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
1/2/2010 2:11 pm

    Quoting phoenixarise07:
    Wow! All I can say is if more men thought like you, they wouldn't need TSdates.com. So just what are you doing here then anyway, lol. Well, thank goodness you are. Hope the guys that really need to see this will, and that they'll "listen up."
    Thank you for attempting to "tame the beast", so to speak. Your respect for us as fully human females behind the keyboard is appreciated.
Why am I here? Easy. To meet all of the truly wonderful people who ARE here that I can...

Please feel free to link to this post whenever you need to. Hopefully enough guys will read it so that it does in fact make a bit of a difference ok? xoxoxox -tm

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tazzerman2000 63M
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1/2/2010 7:19 am

    Quoting  :

Aww thank you sweetheart -tm

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bigbuddy1982 39M

1/2/2010 6:26 am

Dead this is good to hear. Very much the truth in what you say


sugarnspice771 65F

1/2/2010 2:09 am

nice post tazz. u been paying attention eh?


tazzerman2000 63M
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1/1/2010 3:28 pm

Absolutely! -tm

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paduapadua 41M
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1/1/2010 5:06 am

brasileiro pode entrar?


rm_jdguyhorny 55M

12/31/2009 5:05 am

you are sick I won't lick no man ass men are sick thinking they are trannsexuals cd Tv


browsingpenis 39M

12/30/2009 2:00 pm

Good advice here good luck all


looking4fun40608 33M

12/30/2009 10:22 am

great advice


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/30/2009 9:13 am

    Quoting  :

Good for you.. Feel free -tm

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asoingles2007 58M

12/30/2009 5:47 am

I would like to add, that guys should also avoid sending photos of their penis. A profile with a smiling photo is good; ideally one with casual attire and another in business attire, showing the whole body. NEVER directly mention sex with the female. Lastly, be confident with a sense of humor.


crazygurl2xx 62F

12/30/2009 4:15 am

oh gawddamn...!
great post!!!


rm_MAXMOBILE 60M
1956 posts
12/29/2009 9:04 pm

A very good post TZ., all the ladies on this site should have a copy of this to post in their replies to show the idiots out there what a real man is.


rm_Harm231 33M
4 posts
12/29/2009 5:57 pm

That is so true it's not any different fromcrealcdating you wouldn't treat someone like that in real life haha. We shouldn't walk around with our cocks outta our pants here either ;p


vaklushi11 34F

12/29/2009 9:53 am

will those thing really work?


john100671 50M
151 posts
12/29/2009 9:38 am

Cheers to this mate! I haven't been a member nearly so long as you but it drives me just as crazy to see some of the crap that goes on. Please guys, stop making those of us who have respect look like total dicks.


nd2hvfun 63F  
10020 posts
12/29/2009 12:13 am

Tazz you wrote this for us girls if men dont read our profiles and blogs they wont read yours i have come to the conclusion most cant read hehehe you're the best

je ne regrette rien


traveljunkie13 53F
11089 posts
12/28/2009 5:33 pm

Bravo!! Well done, indeed.


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/28/2009 11:11 am

    Quoting joekath5555:
    i agree with you dude....i agree with you...bt the thing u have said is kinda obvious...
Well it's GOOD that you think these things are kinda of obvious. That shows me that you are at LEAST one guy who probably doesn't need to read this. Unfortuantely, you're in the minortiy around here my friend -tm

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stripper19692 52M

12/28/2009 11:11 am

I knew this before I signed up, yes I was hoping it would be easier to meet someone but hey if it was easy what fun would it be, the thing I am tired of I put the effort in writing an email only to find out she is trying to send me to another site and that is a let down and I read everything to find out what there looking for almost everything anyway some it would take hours, but some want to hear fantasys about a first date or what you like, anway yes women should be respected and so should us men


joekath5555 31M

12/28/2009 9:25 am

i agree with you dude....i agree with you...bt the thing u have said is kinda obvious...


tazzerman2000 63M
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12/28/2009 3:52 am

    Quoting  :

well I most certainly will -tm

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tazzerman2000 63M
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12/27/2009 12:12 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep. Treat the gals out here like human beings and with respect. That's not TOO much to ask now is it? Thanks for stopping by. Spread the word OK? -tm

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tazzerman2000 63M
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12/27/2009 8:08 am

    Quoting iamagerl:
    Great one here.. Kudos

    Just only wonder how many guys will get this advice in their heads
Thank you. That's the rub isn't it? Unfortunately, the ones who REALLY need to read it won't... What a shame eh? -tm

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iamagerl 43F
15 posts
12/27/2009 6:34 am

Great one here.. Kudos

Just only wonder how many guys will get this advice in their heads


tazzerman2000 63M
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12/27/2009 4:48 am

    Quoting  :

LOL! That's the first time I*'ve EVER hear that here.. LOL Too funny and too cute my dear! -tm

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Fean71 51M
147 posts
12/27/2009 3:31 am

tazz ,nicely done !

Cheers
Fean71


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/24/2009 3:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Omega nerd? LOL... What the hell does that make me? Tazzerman, the Consummate Geek? -tm

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openwm 55M
6971 posts
12/23/2009 10:16 am

Well said!


LadyUnlaced 47F
34177 posts
12/22/2009 9:50 am

As usual, Tazz, you are 100% on the money! Now if only we could get men to read this fabulous advice.

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

***


Draiad 60F
478 posts
12/22/2009 9:21 am

LOVE the post!! This should be part of to a "welcome to passion" intro. A must read for any/all who hope to get a response other than the finger, lol.


LustyTaurus 53M
21250 posts
12/21/2009 9:41 pm

Soell check? Honesty? Respect?

ok, got it...DON'T talk about Big Jim (or the Twins...right?.)

Lol, I read the post Mr. Congeniality did and let me tell ya, I laughed out loud...wonder why women can be a bit cautious around here!

Merry Christmas Taz...

LT


fenris_call 47M
10587 posts
12/21/2009 8:47 pm

Well said! I may have read a post like that. Just because it is a "sex" site (Swingers, Free Adult Chat & Adult Personals Site!) doesn't mean it has to be devoid of respect and basic common courtesy.

I really don't think there IS a fine line between an alpha male and an ego-centric jerk. An alpha is strong, confident and secure in themselves. An ego-centric is weak, possessive, unsure, and has doubts of their own short comings.

Sapere aude, cor ad cor loquitur. RaMbLiNgS oF a LoSt MiNd


rm_ShyUTGal 61F
11101 posts
12/21/2009 8:27 pm

How very well put. You are a find! Thank ThatsMrsR2U for the pimp, or I'd have missed it.


candiecane67 54F

12/21/2009 8:22 pm

YOU ROCK!!!


oldirtybacchus 101M
9536 posts
12/21/2009 7:42 pm

Venerable TM! Nine years???? Holy fuck!!!!

Do you have full dirty Jedi powers yet?

Well while your post is nice in terms of a gesture towards taking the edge off of emails from the many no class primitive numbskulls, I really don't believe that anything can stop those on the whole.

And a confession: I like guys sending emails like that. I remember
after I realized the practical rules of engagement on TSdates.com, I carefully wrote an email to a woman. (and I ALWAYS read their profiles and blog BTW) I showed it to my GF who had been getting asshatted like crazy, and she said 'are you kidding? She has NO choice but to reply to that. I've never gotten anything that good'.

Thusly, my very first blog post soon after was an anti asshat post.

So guys, don't listen to Tazzer. His dreamy lobotomized head is in the clouds

You don't want educate everyone, and cheat all the ladies out of ODB's magnificence, do you?

All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus


lv2blvngwomen 55M
3805 posts
12/21/2009 7:25 pm

KUDOS on your post tazzerman,
completely agree with the comments made by fellow bloggers M & F alike.
Your comments here definitely SHOULD be a must read for all.

Many thanks to ThatsMrsR2U for pimping this blog.

Hugs and well placed kisses - Chris


tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/21/2009 6:25 pm

    Quoting Wantingsexymind2:
    Thank you Tazz this is perfectly written, may I link it to my blog?
Absolute. -tm

These blogs are only fun if you LEAVE comments!!!

Please visit my blog tazzerman2000


edadian 47M

12/21/2009 5:15 pm

Knew all of this before but it is always good to have a refresher. Thanks.

I have only met a few women from here and only had sex with two of them. The best thing is all the friends I've made and may never meet in person.


Wantingsexymind2 51F
12602 posts
12/21/2009 5:05 pm

Thank you Tazz this is perfectly written, may I link it to my blog?

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
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"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus
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tazzerman2000 63M
18912 posts
12/21/2009 4:40 pm

    Quoting wittywoman:
    Tazz dear you get one really big and juicy slurp for this! Have to reward you somehow for the attempt at least. Oh gee, whatever shall I give you?
How's about 4-5 hours alone with those incredible legs of yours? -tm

These blogs are only fun if you LEAVE comments!!!

Please visit my blog tazzerman2000


purpletrashcan 55F
41653 posts
12/21/2009 4:25 pm

AMEN Dear Abbey!

Pull My Fucking Hair!


wittywoman 52F
2684 posts
12/21/2009 4:08 pm

Tazz dear you get one really big and juicy slurp for this! Have to reward you somehow for the attempt at least. Oh gee, whatever shall I give you?

Hear my brain work when you check out the Cricket's Chirp


rm_InnerPeace07 34F
4536 posts
12/21/2009 3:29 pm

Good advice... alas as said they're never gonna get to read it

In a full heart there is room for everything. In an empty heart there is room for nothing.
Play 3 Word Story


TheRedheadinHeat 59F
9294 posts
12/21/2009 2:19 pm

Tazz baby..........this is one of the many reasons I love you. Thank you for posting this . . . .

. . . . even though the idiots that need to read it wont.

If I have stopped by your blog, please be sure to sign my permission slip Pimp Me, Pimp My Blog, But Let Me Do The Same With You


LadyGrayLeopard 61F
26369 posts
12/21/2009 1:42 pm



BRAVO!!!

Can understand why you are so busy...


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