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Is it ever okay to cheat? - 7/14/2021

This is really aimed at the females, but male input works too. My wife lost interest in sex completely after the birth of our . I mean zero interest. After months of abstinence and years of talking about her waning interest, I have decided to try to find a mistress or girlfriend or homewrecker (you choose the word). Technically, I know this is wrong, but I am tired of no sex or intimacy. ...

14 response(s), 10 votes
rm_reisaree 42 F
31  questions
Is this appropriate? - 7/14/2021

Ok..just looking for others feelings on this.... Would you take your 18 year old with you to a techno club that allows 18 and older in it? FYI...No drinking, drugs or anything of the sort involved. Just loud music and fun.

14 response(s), 6 votes
The High School........ Reunion? - 7/14/2021

"School's out for summer, School's out forever." .....or is it. <br> As I watch my grow up and go through most of the same issues I went through I am reminded of people I knew back in high school, in particular the people I was attracted to. As my high school reunion looms ever closer, I am curious to see how the people I knew, friends or not, have changed. I have run into ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
Swinging Couples w/? Are they safe? - 7/14/2021

Just read a post from a lady who has a young that has been doing some inappropriate internet behavior. Just wondering how many swinging couples out there with worry about their safety? Do you bring people you barely know into your home around your ? I still believe the parents of the girl who got killed in San Diego should have been held more responsible for that innocent sweet 's death. ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
rm_Gyntlman 43 M
15  questions
Strong Will Woman - 7/14/2021

She comes from a long line of women who have always been head of the household and called the shots, and NEVER had any strong male role models around. In that situation one can only understand a woman being that way. But those near and dear to her need to know "that she" cares because the words "I love you" and hugs and other signs of affection are hard to come by from this woman. ...

7 response(s), 4 votes
JustDoIt040553 69 F
1  question
Is It Right - 7/14/2021

A friend of mine put in a question about married people dating each other and you him pretty bad. I don't get it But its ok for misskrissy to have an afair. why him and people say go for it for her. what good for one is good for the rest. Tell me if I am right ?

19 response(s), 41 votes
rm_lovechild54 55 M
6  questions
Married with !!!!! - 7/14/2021

We have been married for 12 years now and have 2 boys 11 and 7. My question is ........ How can we find more private time together without around???? We both work.She gets off at 5:30 and I sometimes do not get home till around midnight.There are no babysitters here.(JAPAN) All of our friends who have say just do it when he gets home!!! I need food and a shower first, by then it's almost ...

7 response(s), 6 votes
morefun4u5 50 M
0  questions
Sex with a best friend - 7/14/2021

I have been friends with...will call her Dana...for years and now I find myself married with 2 but living in the same city as Dana. Last time we saw each other we had some incredible sex, now she is also married but should we start seeing each other on the side? We ususally go out with our spouses on the weekends but I just think that we will get caught, any ideas?

5 response(s), 1 vote
what kind of man could do this? - 7/14/2021

what kind of man could cheat with a married women? with a family, encourage her to leave her husband and or family for years, while she still maintains a real relationship with her husband and ? Is he dellusional, infatuated? Will he ever be able to truly trust a woman that can live in both world at one time not sure where to go and when to jump or not. Should the husband put up with this ...

7 response(s), 2 votes
israelit2003 66 F
76  questions
A picture is worth a thousand words - 7/14/2021

I was "checked out" by this man who has not posted a picture on his profile for me to view. He sends me a short bussines like Email telling me he is seeking a relationship with a mature no game playing woman and gives me his number to contact him at any time. I tell him thanks but i want to see his face before i go any further to which he replies "i own a small business and i don't ...

14 response(s), 9 votes
Where is the respect ???? - 7/14/2021

Why are some people on this site so hateful ? You look at people on here and they say Be Open, Be Honest, Be respectful, and so forth. But you join a group.You are very polite, honest, open, respectful, your share your heart and feelings with them.Because you feel your amoung friends.You flirt and around in a very respectful way.Like the rest are doing. Then some members, not ...

11 response(s), 6 votes
IS IT BAD - 7/14/2021

I have been married for 14 years. I love my husband and my . Here is my ?, I want to be with a woman, is that weird. Should I tell my husband? Please help.

9 response(s), 7 votes
SweetandWild27 48 F
4  questions
beauty is in the eye of the beholder - 7/14/2021

This is actually for the men, But women can answer this too. Men, would You or would You not date or have sex with a woman that has had surgries on her stomach, from having or from some other reason, and thats also including Stretch Marks...And men, This is Not including any of Your Wives..This Is a Question for the married men on here thats looking for extra Fun on the side, or For the ...

72 response(s), 114 votes
What was she thinking? - 7/14/2021

I met a nice lady from here and after a couple of short emails she gave me her address and invited me over to her house. We saw each other a couple of times and decided that we didn't really match. She lives alone with her teenage and was at NO time in danger from me (I'm a respectful guy) but honestly..don't you think that was kind of reckless on her part? <br> ~Aces

13 response(s), 14 votes
Please be brutally honest!!! - 7/14/2021

It is my assumption that a lot of people lie in their profile, i have some proof. Please, everyone, can you just put the bloody truth down, cos you could put yourself out of contention, not many people are looking for someone who can do everything and is sexy and beautiful and outgoing and into new things, and with and work i ask you how many hours do you get to use in one day, just be ...

30 response(s), 34 votes
Ladies of Genuine Desire; are you in need Like myself? - 7/14/2021

I am married, and am in need of some Serious Attention. The attention I speak of could be as easy as the following: a Slow & Electrifying massage, Copulation at Night with a Woman I barely know, a Local House Call for Dining/Dessert, a slight & sexy nudge to my Hand, an accidental brush of a woman’s Breast to my Right Arm, or an intended but Soft grope of a women's fingers across my ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
wishful525 49 F
0  questions
Does It Make Me a ?? - 7/14/2021

Just because I'm a 30 yr old female who has a sex drive that is uncontrolable I have 2 2yrs and 9yrs girls of course I have a live in Boyfriend who is 28 yrs old we have sex yes but I want a hanve a burning need for more so much more I'm bi of course thats cool to any many and it's fine to fuckanother chick or bring them for BOTH of us...He does not go out of ourrelationship on his ...

12 response(s), 4 votes
50 Ways To Leave a Lover: Which did you choose? - 7/14/2021

Okay, I know I am eventually going to leave and actually have started thinking about it. Just don't know the best way, when, how, or if I can leave without hurting her feelings. Should I find a female to move in with (doesn't sound right). Leave a note? Maybe she will lose her mind? Should I take my with me or leave him with her? Maybe she will hurt him? Maybe I'm not all that and she will ...

12 response(s), 2 votes
Couple??? or Single??? - 7/14/2021

Hi ... just a general question?? Why if you folks have ads on here as a "couple"..do other couples get "hits" from the Male of other couples..asking to swing alone??. Now we know...different strokes for different folks..but isn't the point of "couples" ad to share things together as a "couple". No offense intented..just asking )

7 response(s), 5 votes
Really Like this Girl, but confused whats going on - 7/14/2021

I know this girl who owns a Subway next to my office. I love sandwiches and so would eat there almost 4 to 5 times a week. About two months after I first started going there, she noticed that I order almost the same stuff everytime, " Traditional, Large, on Wheat". She joked that I better tell her my name or she'd start calling me "Mr. Traditional". Now this happened after ...

9 response(s), 1 vote
rm_brjn1 47 C
0  questions
Blood Donors and Safe Sex - 7/14/2021

We have read on the advice lines before that the easiest way to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases in America is to be a blood donor, and that donors are given a certificate to say they are healthy. <br> Is this really what happens over there? <br> In the UK our blood transfusion service has a policy of refusing blood donations from people who have had ...

19 response(s), 32 votes
CURIOKIDD 46 F
1  question
whats really going on - 7/14/2021

I have a man i've been with for 3 yrs. I love him with all my heart. He wants to get married and have one day. I don't have that desire in my heart. Although i do have one desire he does not know about... I love women, and have been with a few since we;ve been together. lately im not really in the mood for sex (at least with him) but if i close my eyes and think about one of my sexual ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
sexypoohbear4u 69 M
5  questions
How would you feel if this happened to you????? - 7/14/2021

This not only happened to me once in high school but twice and then again about nine weeks ago. <br> I was a sophomere in high school and was going steady with this girl.One weekend after we had been going together about 6 months we had a date scheduled for a Friday nite. In fact it was the first Friday after football season ended. I will never forget because I was on that football ...

12 response(s), 8 votes
Tried to get a date and was ref. to a service same lady - 7/14/2021

Has anyone else had this problem. I tried to make a date with a lady on TSdates.com, Got a reply back if I was really interested in her to go to this other site. When I did it was an service, and yes she was one of the . However they wanted my credit card info, I of course didn't give it. Is this some sort of scam?

2 response(s), 2 votes
our youth exposed to the size question. - 7/14/2021

watching tv tonight they played a "male enhancement" product commercial during almost every break in the regular programming. not only did they play it but they played two versions of the same commercial back to back EVERY time the commercial aired. this was during the dinner hour. <br> my question here is; what, if anything do you think these kind of commercials may be doing to ...

11 response(s), 32 votes
Would you try to change your 's sexual preference? - 7/14/2021

I have a friend with a teenage gay . She loves him and accepts him as is, but she desperately wants grandchildren someday. Since he has never been with a woman, she wants him to experience sex with a woman before making a "final decision" on being gay. <br> Would you try to change your 's sexual preference so you could have grandchildren? I know most people will make the ...

13 response(s), 5 votes
afuntimeinpa21 53 M
9  questions
Is it true that many ladies prefer black cock? - 7/14/2021

Not sure how to go about asking this one but here goes: An ex gf told me one time that the only way she really gets hot and can enjoy sex with any white guy is to fuck a black man first. This she said was true mainly after she got done riding her . She loves hourses and has a couple, male only, and says that nothing come closer to a cock then a black man. She claims that when shes ...

10 response(s), 11 votes
What do men like better? - 7/14/2021

When dressing up in costume and roll playing which do you like better on a Woman: 1- I dream of Jeanie 1- The Secratary 3- The 4- Zeena The Bondage woman 5- You tell me your ideas? <br> Im just very couriouse on some Fantasys here..

14 response(s), 9 votes
Do men always neglect one breast over another? - 7/14/2021

Is there something unique and special about every breast that gives it its own personality?? It seems similar to parents telling their , "we love you all equally" when it's the furthest from the truth. Besides, it's hard for a man to concentrate on more than one thing at a time. Personally, I suspect that most men would be much happier with just a single large perky breast in the middle of ...

13 response(s), 12 votes
wert59 52 M
3  questions
The mature re-fined lady - 7/14/2021

I am about to embark on a hopefully torried affair with a beautiful sexy gorgeous older lady of 50, who i met at a petrol station, she has 3 teenage and according to her a teenage over weight inactive uninterested wealthy husband, he no longer wants to fuck her only when hes pissed, he doesnt talk to her only to ask wheres his dinner is, he spends most of his time either at the club or on ...

4 response(s), 2 votes