I hope you have a few minutes. lol So this is it? The world's largest sex and swinger peral community. 75% Men, 10% Fake, 10% couples, 3% (real sexy open-minded) women, 2% other. I wonder what my chances are? This site is interesting to say the least. I have managed to succeed in meeting some amazing, fun, friendly people, (though far fewer than some seem to think) I have put myself out there as openly as I can and I appreciate others who have taken the time to provide interesting profiles and responses to messages. Some people seem to think my photos are fake. So be it. Some people think my photos show too much. Remember the thing about the World's Largest Sex & Swinger Yadda Yadda? So shoot me for being a bit of an exhibitionist. Just make sure the lens cap is off. It is about quality, not quantity. Mutual respect and attraction leads to mutual enjoyment and hopefully mutual orgasms. This is a Sex website. I am a sex-positive guy into sexually adventurous relationships. I have experienced many of the scenarios being sought by others on this website and I have discovered that my greatest enjoyment comes from the fulfillment and pleasure of others. I am comfortable in a more dominant role, but I have been known to switch when the situation calls for it. No pressure, No baggage, No strings*, No worries. No sex on the first date(s) unless it feels right. *but possibly restraints I am 5'10", 170 with a toned, athletic build. Some words to describe me: positive & polite, happy & humorous, determined & decisive, outgoing & open-minded, optimistic, hedonistic & exhibitionistic (a little), artistic & adventurous. I am employed full time in addition to running a small business on the side. My work keeps me active and occupied, but never too busy to enjoy my favourite activities. I stay in shape physically by skiing, biking, blading & just being active. I relax by playing guitar or listening to music. I recycle, canvass my neighbourhood for charities & do yard work for seniors. I love traveling and enjoy a good road or camping trip whenever I can. I'm hoping to do some more intensive exploring abroad in the next couple of years. Care to join me? I am looking for an outgoing, intelligent, athletic woman who loves to smile and laugh. She should be confident, independent and adventurous with a love for travel, music and good food. She should be open-minded and willing to experience her fantasies in life as well as in the bedroom. She should be comfortable with her appearance and enjoy dressing up for a night on the town or dressing down for whatever the activity may be. I am looking for casual relationships for now, but may be interested in something longer term if I find the right per. Could this be you? Couples & Groups seeking men. I see you out there and I enjoy reading your profiles and seeing your sexy pics. I won't often send you a message if I see that you are a gold or silver member unless I see you in a chat room. I imagine your needs are more specific than mine so I figure that if you like what you see in me, you will initiate contact. I have played with couples and in numerous group and swinging scenarios in the past. I am well versed in my multiple partner etiquette and never play or pressure when unwelcome or uninvited. Do I fit into your scenario? Feel free to wink or request to join my network if you are interested in finding out more. Add me to your hotlist if you like what you see and I will get in touch. If you have received a message from me... I would appreciate a reply regardless of your interest. That way I know whether you got my original message or if AFF gobbled it up. I wouldn't want to waste your time with unwanted messages. I hope to hear from all who are looking to expand their horizons and experience life in every way possible. Don't be shy, take a chance and get to know me. BD

My Ideal Person Please see above B]

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have many sexual fantasies... email me and ask me to send
you one.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, I am open to discussion on most of these topics...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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