I'm retired and have plenty of time on my hands. I'm also easy going, intelligent, have a GSOH, fun to be with, I like to laugh. I'm also one that likes to go out and do many different things sometimes instead of having sex . Don't get me wrong , I love sex like everyone else but I also like to have some balance in the things I do for fun. Sometimes when we're out doing whatever it is we decided to do, it turns out having sex fits right in with the other thing we're doing. That's balance.

My Ideal Person is a woman who knows what she wants and get's it. She has no problem taking the lead in the bedroom some of the time. She is drama free, knows how to act in public as to not draw negative attention from people. She stands with her man, not against him in difficult times. She knows her man better than he himself does. She is happy with her life and it shows. All that I have written above is the kind of person I am as well.