We are a happily married couple looking for like-minded couples or singles for fun in and out of the bedroom. We value cleanliness (disease-free and always use condoms), open-mindedness, playfulness, intelligence, and discretion. We like same-room swapping and anything except pain. I enjoy being bi-sexual with the right woman - but not essential. We also enjoy dining out and lively conversation, along with lots of outdoor activities. We are reasonably fit and desire the same. Prefer 21 or older.

My Ideal Person We are looking for a couple or the exceptional single man or woman. We are attracted to people similar to ourselves: in a stable, happy relationship, secure in their love, with no jealousy. Other attributes would be: attractive, fit (relatively), intelligent, friendly, good sense of humor, discreet in public, yet "lively" in the bedroom. Single people ideally would be: attractive, intelligent and able to carry on good conversations (that's not really asking too much is it?!). Men should be able to be in "charge" as well as letting me take the lead, also able to share and take turns with my husband, long-lasting, enjoys foreplay and afterplay as well as the main course, someone who genuinely likes women. Women need not be bi, although it's a plus, and should enjoy spending time with a couple.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, foursomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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