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Himherandthem 57 / 45 / C
"Back in KC!!!!!!!! Update 9-19 for early Oct."
Olathe, Kansas, United States
 
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Himherandthem 57/C
Olathe, Kansas
Updated 9-20-22 / we have a plan
Introduction
Clean and classy, both educated and both professionals. Not looking for the biggest cock, fittest body or anyone aggressive, rude or pushy. we're looking to meet the nicest most considerate guy we can who is fun, easygoing, a bit adventurous or you wouldn't be reading this, and extremely cooperative. This is her adventure that I'm giving her, she wants her first MFM and DP. I'm not a cuck and will be the one in charge per her wishes. She has a very specific idea of what she wants so,,, if you're a clean, considerate , easy going , preferably educated professional, like us or at least an extremely likable guy, please reply and I (the Hubby) am doing the screening and selecting, reply with a few lines about yourself and why we should pick you. As I narrow down the list of candidates you'll get a lot more info about us, what she wants and so on. Thanks in advance for offering to be our guy. UPDATE![B][/B] We went to Vegas and had our first MFM, Loved it! Looking for our next adventure near KC, We don't live near either and don't play at home so we'll be traveling. We'd like to step it up a little and possibly add a second guy or even a third making it her, myself and 2-3 other guys, the same description of who we're looking for applies, being a good guy and having the right attitude will get you further than any physical attributes. Cock size doesn't matter, being a kind, cooperative non pushy guy who isn't arrogant or selfish does. So,,,, give us shout if you think you'd like to be part of the experience and help me give her one of her fantasies and a sexy memory to look back on.

My Ideal Person Kind considerate, not pushy arrogant or rude, this is all about her. We're looking for a white or Hispanic guy, no offense, just what she's attracted to, HW proportionate, easygoing and fun. you and I (the Hubz) will meet prior to so I gotta like you or it's a no go. I'm straight BTW. you can be bi or straight. Have a decent face and be prepared to follow instructions to give her , her fantasy, we're not here for you to yours or take what you want,,,, we're going to be pleasing her the way she has envisioned it.

Update for early Oct 2022:
We have a plan, it involves adding 2 guys, possibly 3 but most likely 2 + me, I have a suite booked near Power and Light and now am trimming down the list of potential volunteers. Our plans are to meet the lucky gentlemen in a bar, have a few drinks, let you and her get acquainted, a little flirting, (that and a couple drinks really get her relaxed) then back to the hotel for fun. A lot more detail will be communicated once we select our guests.
I will reiterate that our selection priorities are nice, non-pushy or too aggressive, intelligent, be somewhat good looking, clean, articulate and fun. What is NOT a factor is your physique tho please be HWP, cock size or kink, we like normal guys who enjoy a little taboo, the excitement of pleasing her, not yourself. We're fulfilling HER fantasy!
Thank you all for reading and being willing to participate by following HER rules, wants and boundaries.

FYI she doesn't get on here, if you message you'll be talking to the Hubz only.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Her's MFM / DP Rough, , simulated , tied up, no control <br><br>
His, making hers come true

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
never

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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Information
  • 57/45 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Olathe, Kansas, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Straight
Looking For:  Men
Marital Status: Attached
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Want Children: No
 
His
Her
Birthdate: January 31, 1967 February 18, 1979
Relocate?: No No
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm 5 ft 7 in
Body Type: Athletic Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Gov Gov
Race: Caucasian Hispanic
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 B
Hair Color: Brown Brown
Hair Length: Short Medium
Eye Color: Brown Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None Contacts