Inspireme21 48 / F
"Looking for inspiration...."
Newport News, Virginia, United States
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Inspireme21 48/F
Newport News, Virginia
Birthday next month. anyone want to have a party to celebrate? Open to ideas.
Many of you have a grave misunderstandings of what a preference is, you also are confused on terms. So let's straighten it out, shall we. First we all have a preference, if I am not your preference no big deal. But for some reason it seems that if a man says hey not my type, as women we say ok. However, when we as women state that we are not interested because you are not our type, men for some reason think that this is a negotiating point. It isn't, I do not owe you any explanation of my preferences or for anything else for that matter. Now lets talk about terms - Ghosting is talking for 3 months, meeting, having sex, smoking a joint and having a lovely conversation, followed by complete silence, now when that same individual comes back to hurt you that is narcissism at it's finest. Hence the boundary issue below. If someone on this site is chatting with you and disappears that is loss of interest. They are not the same. Thank you and welcome to my TED talk. Looking for a man, female and/or couple for fun....... I play with a Pleasure DOM on a regular basis. He is bi, we are always looking for a man, woman or couple to play with. I have to be attracted. Not opposed to a hotel. January 6, 2021 I went in for an MRI. On January 9, 2021 I was in surgery for Cervical Myelopathy. They had to remove, replace and fuse C6. I was a year from death or becoming a quadriplegic. Time for me has sped up. I truly don't have time for the bullshit I have already dealt with. I am currently separated. I smoke cigarettes and pot. I am honest and authentic. I know a rarity on here, and in life. . I believe in seduction, if done right it is an art form. Seeking a FWB A face pic is an absolute requirement. When life gives you lemons, get the tequila. Fuck the lemonade . I am fully vaccinated.

My Ideal Person And here is what I know. Each of us are broken in some way, some more than others. We all come in contact with one another for a reason. Whether that be for conversation, sex, a partner, or personal growth. Whatever you are here for, there is a top for your pot. You also may discover that what you wanted is not what you needed and then maybe you can discover what you need to satisfy your soul.

You cannot make someone love you the way you need to be loved. Sometimes the greatest show of strength is just walking away. And in the rare times that you find the one person who fits you like a puzzle, you can't make them see your worth. Adjust that damn crown and keep walking! Even if it destroys your soul, it's better than the hurt you have daily knowing you will never be able to be with that person.

Don't allow the failures of the past to dictate your future accomplishments. And don't allow anyone to steal your joy. Life is like a river, we have to flow with it. And if you have made it this far, just message me and talk to me. Even if it isn't a match, I have met some really cool people. Who have offered some of the most beautiful perspectives.

I hope every one of you find what you need to fill your soul with peace and joy. In whatever form that be.

I never give second chances, you fuck up it's on you. This is a boundary issue.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

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  • 48 / female
  • Newport News, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: February 24, 1973
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 5 ft 2 in / 157-160 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Entreprenuer
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 38 / 85 B
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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