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LovinSwLifestyle 62 / M
"Couple Looking for Like Minded"
Raleigh, North Carolina, United States
 
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LovinSwLifestyle 62/M
Raleigh, North Carolina
Introduction
Update 10/18: I am part of a couple now. We also have a Kasidie profile RickAndSunshine. This is a living document and will change frequently as we gain experiences. About Rick: Adventurous type who craves variety in all aspects of his life. His motorcycle is his one true love (it's okay she's supportive of this) and he loves the freedom he feels on his bike. He get's along with just about every type of person out there and is typically the more extroverted one in the pair. He loves a good laugh and often gets that through poking, prodding, and growling at her and other fun girls.  About Sunshine: Also adventurous, she enjoys being in the mountains or on her yoga mat as much as possible. Her favorite hobby is being naked in the sun (that's a hobby right?) and though she's much more shy than her counterpart, she enjoys lighthearted conversation and lots of giggles with new people. She is bisexual and enjoys both giving and receiving with women, especially if play beyond just oral is involved. With men, she tends to be more submissive in bed and enjoys the rougher/primal side of sex (spanking, hair pulling etc. up for negotiation). Us: Two easy going peas in a pod who love to laugh and meet new people. New to exploring swinging together (he has prior experience, she does not). BDSM lifestylers who can bring this to the bedroom or leave it at home depending on the comfort of those they play with. Get  tested regularly and think safety and consent are suuuuper sexy. We value respect both giving and receiving. Both are active, mindful of their health, and happy in their skin (see note about nudity as a hobby.) If you're looking for model types, more power to you, but we probably aren't the couple for you.  We frequent Co Springs about once every couple of months to go to Voodoo events. Note - We are ACTIVE! We work out almost daily and recently we have started country dancing at least two times a week. On top of this, we frequent lifestyle events (mostly BDSM events or blended events) and try to keep up with our regular social lives. This means we tend to need to plan a get together rather than spur of the moment, and that we get really excited when a woman/couple joins us on our adventures while out so we can enjoy an activity and enjoy getting to know someone else! Want to go dancing? Go for a hike?  Bike ride? Motorcycle ride?  Let us know! Give us a little time to respond.  We will visit your profile often to take notes, usually individually. But when we do send messages we tend to look at profiles together and message together so this can take time for us to make the time to do so. We aren't cyber stalking, promise.

My Ideal Person Based on some of our experiences, If you like our pics or flirt with us, this serves as our thanks! But we no longer respond to likes, flirts and friend requests without a message to go with it. So if you're interested in us then send us a message and we will get back to you always and see where it takes us. If we are not interested we will say so. What's the worst that can happen? Private pics are for people we have plans to meet or have been chatting with extensively. We are no longer giving out our private pics on request.

We are starting to move towards meeting people at events rather than a dinner or drinks. Not that we're opposed to dinner or drinks but we're finding a lot of time is spent for this that can be better served at an event.

Looking to play as a couple with other couples, or with single women - looking for bi women in both scenarios so Sunshine can have some girl fun too. 

We are both BIG on connection! We LOVE getting to know people and just see where that leads. Our ideal scenario would be to get to know each other over dinner or an activity before an evening of fun. Even better if you're BDSM friendly and want to check out an event or play party with us. Because connection is so big for us, we don't really have "types" that we target. We just want to get to know some great people and see if there's chemistry. We are still open to meeting people at lifestyle events and jumping right into fun, but it's not as frequent of an occurrence for us. 

Things we love to do and would like to do more of with others: sensual massages, attending sex positive events and discussions, various forms of group sex (had a couple good experiences and are wanting more), and we're always more than happy to softly introduce or "sample" new types of kinks to curious couples. 

Information
  • 62 / male
  • Raleigh, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: June 9, 1961
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Computer
Race: Mixed
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses