[COLOR darkred][B]TRANSPARENCY:[/B] Although our permanent residence is FL, we will be in the western suburbs of the Windy City for the foreseeable future. Know that she gets to make the final call on who gets to join us in any 3sums so the process is a [B]slow walk[/B] (we hate the "are we there yet" questions). Additionally, there is a [B]significant[/B] bi-oral-sub element to both the 3sum aspect and the Mm one-on-one aspect. If you are squeamish about that or not [I]just as into[/I] the Mm one-on-one stuff then [B]we are not a match[/B]. The male is currently playing alone. [B]No pictures = no response[/B][/COLOR] My female partner and I are seeking a discreet, married or attached bi-Sigma/bi-Alpha male to both of us for a semi-regular MFm arrangement. She is straight. He is orally bi and sub in that respect; heteroflexible (enjoys going down on men almost as much as women). The female has indicated that the male will be doing [U]all[/U] of the oral work (she is happy not to have to suck cock anymore), so unless she is really moved to, she won't be orally engaged with the man's cock until comfortable with fidelity to boundaries and if she so chooses. The male has experience as an oral sub in 3sums (former marriage) as well as oral experience with Alphas and Sigmas one-on-one (from youth to the contemporary present). The female has no lifestyle experience but has a lust to engage. So, respect and understanding are required. In the interest of transparency, the female does have flare-ups of HSV but they are extremely rare and managed. There hasn't been a flare-up for quite a while. We will not engage during these times. Discretion on all activities is an absolute must.

My Ideal Person STOP! READ!!:

The Man We Are Looking For:

• Must be married or attached and not getting any at home (very few exceptions)

• Willing to "double-dip" meaning willing and just as enthusiastic to meet with the male half one one-on-one (male half is a bi oral sub desiring no reciprocation)

• In his very late-40s to mid-60s (so if you're 29 or in your 70s your chances are slim)

• Is a bi-Sigma or bi-Alpha male (bi in that you enjoy being orally pleased by the man but would never return the favor) and is just as into meeting one-on-one with the male as you are for the 3sums (if your profile doesn't indicate at least "bi-curious" you better be right out of the box as to why)

• Should be relatively local or to the West of Cook Co. (no city-dwellers - the immediate border is possible)

• Is not just tolerating the male to fuck the female

• Is circumcised (no exceptions)

• Understand this is for a semi-regular, physical-only relationship (no hook-ups or bed-hoppers)

• Has a high level of discretion

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We are looking for a long-term bi-Sigma/bi-Alpha male partner who is - and we can't state this firmly enough - married or attached and in a committed relationship but not being sexually fulfilled at home. He should be relatively local or to the West. Men existing in sexless marriages or unable to have sex because their female partners are unable to for medical reasons get first consideration.

Any of those interested must be moderately endowed (no monster cocks or guys arrogant about their size - 6 to 6.5 preferred), and only Caucasians (no we are not prejudiced it's just a preference, so if you're offended that's exactly why we wouldn't pick you).

Our preference is for a male who doesn't sleep around and wants a mutually satisfying arrangement for the three of us that is a semi-regular arrangement; a hybrid "stag/hotwife/Alpha-Sigma" MFm situation.

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(Our definition of "Sigma" means the man is a dominant introvert who would be completely open to receiving oral attention from the male of the couple, but would not - himself - engage in any sub behavior with the male of the couple; just as turned on "using" the male as "getting to" the female)

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The appropriate prospect should be easy-going, good-humored, D/D free, cut (read: circumcised), non-pushy, sophisticated-leaning, and very discreet. Did we say he has to be easy-going and have a good sense of humor??

We also prefer someone who understands the complexity of co-existing in the area. In public, unless agreed to (and that would be way down the road), we would need to maintain a sense of anonymity if we were to cross paths outside of our activities together. Running into someone you play with discreetly behind closed doors when out with other friends who are not into the lifestyle can be offsetting.

Prospects must be willing to engage first in a vetting chat with the male and then in a group text chat to get acquainted before any meet-up (sorry, we need to know if you're psycho or not before we put ourselves out there).

We are not trying to complicate our lives with someone who disrespects or tries to interfere in our relationship. NO DRAMA!! We are simply looking for someone who enjoys the activity, respects the boundaries set forth, and wants to have discreet and ongoing fun.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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