We have been married for 13 years. Probably like many couples, we got into a pattern. She became a stay at home mom focusing on getting the to soccer/ballet/baseball/horseback/whatever activity they had, he focused hard on improving his career and providing for the family, and the sex... it became vanilla. Almost planned. The "weekly booty duty." Then starting a year ago, we woke up. His hard work is paying off, but he also opened his eyes that the going through the motions was not enough and frankly putting us down a path neither wanted. He changed... we changed, and we are doing amazingly better since then. The sex is... Mmm!! What was once 3 maybe 4 times a month is now 4 to 5 times a week. Bring a towel because things are going to get toe curlingly wet!! We have begun talking about adding an extra person or couple into the bedroom and we are just starting to explore this world. We don't know if we will move forward with this or not. We only know that we will decide together and be together through it the whole way. What is important to us is our privacy. We have small . They cannot know. If we do meet up, it will never be at our home. We can be friendly (very friendly ;) but we cannot be friends. There will also be no wife swap / one on one with the Mrs or Mr.. We will be in the room together having a blast as a couple. No side meet ups. No solo adventures. We are a loving and devoted couple. Mrs has fantasies of playing with two cocks. While toys are nice, there is nothing that compares to the real feel of her hubby in her. She is not a fan of BJs, but when the mode is right, almost anything goes. Has done line anal. Absolutely no ATM under any circumstances!! Not Bi-curious. Just would like to be eaten out with a real dick inside her and try out having two real cocks in her at once. Depending upon where she is in her cycle, she loves getting a hot load pumped insider her as she cums. This might be an option for the guy playing with us. Mr. doesn't really have any fantasies. He has had the two girl three way in his youthful college days. His biggest motivation his when I cum. He loves it when she starts screaming and moaning in pleasure which drives him over the top! As he says, "there are orgasms and then there are wife screaming at the top of her lungs in pleasure driving you absolutely wild orgasms!" He wants more of the latter. Not interested in Bi or cheating on his wife. If there is another lady in the bedroom, sorry he will only kiss his wife. He is willing to do almost anything else.

My Ideal Person Must be willing to keep it related to business. We can be friendly. We can be friends. But at the end of the day, we are together and there is no room in our hearts for another.

No STDs, infections, or sexual medical issues.
No smoking.
No hard drugs.
Must be respectful to the Mrs. at all times. While she likes to be forced around a little, ultimately she is in the driver seat. Not you.
Don't have to be hair free, but some grooming and maintenance is highly desired. (No jungles)

Looking for a male or couple. Male would desire the average length, 6 to 8 inches. Nothing small and nothing that won't all fit in.

We have restricted our search to couple only, because of the sheer number of guys reaching out and messaging almost hourly wanting to join us, then asking why we don't immediately respond. Look, we are still feeling this whole thing out. We don't know yet, and we don't want to be pressured.