I am educated, business professional, communicator, successful, passionate, creative, compassionate, open-minded, romantic and chivalrous but… there’s always a but right? I have a very kinky side to me that I hide well. Let’s get this out there too… I am married and this is discreet for me due to the mismatch in the bedroom, so if that’s not your thing, then you can stop reading, otherwise, theres more! Im on here because I need someone who values intimacy and sex as high as I do BUT also knows that just because sex and intimacy are at the top, it doesn’t mean you can’t have a strong caring relationship with that person whether it be friendship or more. Our society compresses sexuality and I think it is backwards. Do you agree? OK good so far, keep reading! I am a man very in tune with emotions, I know what I like, and I am very sensitive to how my partner is reacting. But… again with the but’s… I am strong and take charge and not a rollover. I like to chat a lot about everything and particularly LOVE intellectual conversation but I can easily switch and dive deep into dirty talk too. When we are not together I tend to make my partners wet with my words. Ill make you a bet! You WILL find yourself uncrossing your legs reading one of my deeply sensual messages to you. I need a partner that can appreciate my depth and trust I will give a lot as well who can consume my sexual prowess.. Still interested? Well hell yeah! Physically I’m a bigger dadbod/teddy bear type, I am baldish (it’s not all gone and no, no combover, but balding with a high and tight cut), gray goatee, deep blue eyes that get rave reviews and an infectious smile. Still Interested? Well hot damn!

My Ideal Person Since this is my wishlist, here goes. The number one thing is I need an intelligent woman who challenges my mind. She is confident and embraces her femininity. You are a woman, a sexual woman and free to be that way. I need her to be a sexual and sensual being at the core and ALWAYS ready to get down no matter where we are and what we are doing. I have a need for her to be the type of woman who loves to have sex multiple times a day, loves a good makeout session, and cuddling on the couch gets her wet. She loves to dress up to feel sexy both in the bedroom and out in public. Tell me that men hit on you and see what it does to me. She needs to be open-minded and into new explorations and adventures. She has an oral fixation and to give oral any time of day. In return you become the epicenter of attention, my lips on yours (everywhere), my hands all over your body when we are together from the small of your back to your inner thigh at the restaurant.. And you’re still reading? WOW!

If you possess these attributes, I would love to see where this goes. We may have something special!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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