UPDATE: we are no longer in Jefferson County. We recently moved to the Westport area. Please feel free to kick us if you prefer communicating on that platform, but don’t forget to mention that you got our information on AFF so that we know you aren’t spam. Use e.j.dubb .He has been lifestyle friendly for 20+ years. She is new to the scene and would require a more intimate personal connection before things moved forward. If/when everyone is comfortable, we would be open to MFM, FMF, or Couple Play. We are looking for long time friends that are also playmates, and not necessarily a one time hookup. We are very open minded and good with just about anything as long as everyone is having fun. We both have hall passes, but she has yet to use one and he will be along for any initial meeting to ensure her comfort and safety. Any questions, feel free to drop us a line. He will be the one reading most of the messages, so please do not spam him with dick pics. If she wants to see it, we will ask. lol About him: 6 ft. even, 170 lbs.. average build, attractive to most, well endowed, but not huge. very open minded and has done most things that can be done in the lifestyle with the exception of MM contact. About her: 5ft. 2in., 100 lbs., slim build and very beautiful. She has never been in the lifestyle and is both nervous and excited. She is attracted to personality more than physical appearance, so letting her get to know you would be important. This is not to discount the importance of physical attraction, just important to emphasize that it only goes so far with her.

My Ideal Person Ideally we would like to meet people in person and if/when the chemistry is right, move to a soft swap (we would be open to flirting, touching, kissing, possibly oral swap, and maybe same room sex with own partner) with the goal of moving over time to a full swap scenario with the right people. we are both good with whatever the other chooses to do, so drama is not an issue with us. She is just unsure of how far she wants to go or how fast and pressure is a turn off for her. additionally, when someone gets too drunk or too high to take themselves out of the moment, it's a turn off for us. We believe in a live and let live mentality, but excess with drugs or alcohol just does nothing for us. Thank you for reading and feel free to ask anything. we are honest, fun, and looking forward to meeting like minded people.