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SWIDGIN 58 / M
"TALL, SEXY, FUNNY NERD WANTS YOU!!!"
santa cruz, California, United States
 
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Member Since: April 4, 2012

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SWIDGIN 58/M
santa cruz, California
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Introduction
I'm looking for passion, romance, love, and laughs. I'm tall, fit, sexy, warm and a passionate, giving human dude. I wear glasses and like to use my brain; if that's not sexy to you or too "nerdy" for you, we probably won't get along. I'm a musical, creative thinker and a businessman. No suits for me when I can help it. I'm probably not your type if you are looking for a Ken doll, or a movie star/jock type. I am direct, joyful and caring I'm looking for someone who loves to laugh and play and think and wants someone reliably kind, uniquely sexy and a little goofy. I cook, (apparently everyone is a chef these days) play guitar and sing, read a ton, love movies, art, food, good booze and smart, beautiful women. What do you like? I'm legally married; in my case, that means my wife and I live together only as parents to our ren, and are not physically intimate. We both openly see others in search of love and romance. We share a common goal of doing what is best for our s and being happy. Our marriage is completely over in the romantic sense. We will divorce and live separately as soon as possible and reaable for our ren. "Open Marriage" is listed on my profile because it is the closest description to the truth of my situation. I am looking for a monogamous relationship. I am and have been available in heart and mind since our union ended; my wife is also seeking her own, separate romantic life. It's not easy to fit this into a box; but I'm not interested in surprising anybody. If you are interested, please be open minded and know that I am not trying to have my cake and eat it too. Right now there's no cake at all, actually!! (also, what the hell else would one do with a cake but eat it???) I'm an ENFP if you follow that jazz. So, enough of this...I am fully available and it's not as complicated as it may seem. I'm pretty freaking rad...be open minded and don't miss a potentially amazing connection.

My Ideal Person I love femininity, intelligence, an open mind and a sense of humor. Body type does not dictate beauty or desirability....what do you like?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
your mother's house.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 58 / male
  • santa cruz, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women or Trans
Birthdate: October 1, 1965
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 6 ft 4 in / 193-195 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Either
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