I’m healthy, active, intelligent, romantic and unfulfilled. I’m also HWP and have a great sense of humor. Because of a medical issue in my marriage, we have had a non-intimate relationship for the last several years. No one is to blame; I’m the weak one when it comes to coping with the loss of intimacy. Knowing that the emptiness in my life will never be filled unless I do something is what has brought me here. If you are mature, healthy and yearn for intimacy, like me, then we should message/chat and talk about what we each want from a relationship. I’m not here to sow my ‘wild-oats’ in every secret garden within a 100 miles even thought gardening can be a lot of fun. I prefer a semi-exclusive relationship but realize that isn't always possible but I would like to hear your thoughts on the subject. I don’t want to hurt anyone or be hurt so let’s talk about what we are each looking for. Because of discretion, I’ve chosen not to post face pictures on this site but would be happy to share them on a selective basis; I don’t think you will be disappointed. Let’s exchanges messages/chat and answer any questions we may have and then we can talk about where we might want to go from there.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is a mature HWP woman (widow, hot wife or single) who is happy and content with her life but, like me, feels there is still a place for intimate pleasure in their life. I'm looking for someone near my age (50s to 70s) so that we can communicate and not have to explain every life experience from black and white TV to rotary dial phones. As for the physical benefits of a relationship, I want to add variety and excitement to both our lives. Our imaginations/fantasies and personal boundaries will be our only limits.

Every relationship, including the intimate one we both envision, needs open and honest communication if it is to flower and grow. If you have a question or would like more information, message me. You hold the key to our joint future; lets embark on this adventure together.

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