Well a good day to all. Many thanks for taking a quick gander at the profile here. It has taken many months to get the nerve up to even make a profile, but I am tired of not ever experiencing anything... It is about time I took chances, and even if I fall on my face, at least I gave it a shot. I recently am divorced from a 13 year marriage. Looking back over it now, I cringe at how shitty it was. I have always been the good boy. I always did what I was told and never got in trouble....4.0..Master's Degree.... and now just my dissertation left until my Ed.D. Every single day I simply complied with my owner (ex-wife) to ensure all parties (she only) was happy and satisfied. No matter how miserable I was, I did what was expected of me.... and even that wasn't enough. It wasn't until I had and my would come to me daily and ask what I had done to get into trouble did I realize I spent every single day being barked and yelled at and belittled, even front of the . Somehow I snapped out of it and I don't want to go back to that numb dead person I was. I want to actually live instead of simply exist. I want to find some kind of meaning and connection. I need you to help me. I believe I am a kind, generous, empathetic, and caring individual who truly cares about my friends and family. Even though most of my responses now contain heavy sarcastic overtones, I still make sure those around me are heard and treated with respect. People seem to have a lot of fun around me now, and many of my days are filled with laughter and jovial spirit. I am on the right track, but I finally feel that I can see color in the world and I want to explore. I am very open to meeting people and trying new experiences. At this point, I am really only interested in casual activities and fun times that aren't connected to anything other than just having a fun and free time. I am sure that will change over time, but that is where I am. Most of the time when I am not working you will see me reading or driving like a wild man down old country roads with the windows down. Having this need to experience new things, I want to start traveling and create my "second life" list of things I have never done but really want to do. I am reinventing who I was, and as far as I can see, the sky is the limit of where I can go and who I can meet. I believe I got stuck in my marriage because of the insecurity I felt about how I looked. Being a bigger guy, I didn't think I had options and had to stick with the first person who showed any interest. This time around, I know I have to change that. I am who I am and I look how I look... it is life. And I have decided that if some people can't handle my size, then that is fine, but I love who I am now.... I love what I can do... I love who I can now be.... and I hope I can be several different things to different people here. I don't try to hide my weight, because in all things I am honest, and want to meet people that are expecting me I have lost a ton of weight, but I am still about 260, and for some, that is titanic huge....but again, to each his/her own. I love myself and I am confident in me... and all in all, that makes for a fucking amazing me. I have no particular expectations on who I will meet and what they will look like. I am open to meeting anyone. I know I can have fun with anyone that cares to spend some time with me. The point is to experience new things with new people. I want to feel intensely and live hard to make up for a lifetime of being in a fog. All I ask is for anyone I meet to be open and honest, discreet, serious, and to not play games because I have no times for games and bullshit. I have tried to be descriptive so that you know what you are getting with me. I apologize if this diatribe bores you... I can make it better. So... chat with me... connect with me... let's talk or go for a drive.... let's grab a drink or some food.... .let's heat things up to the max and really push the experience of this thing called life. I promise to always focus on you and put you at the center of every meeting, to listen and genuinely care about what you are dealing with, and do all I can to make you feel special and important, and to have an experience that we both continue to smile about in the future. Just shoot me a message and we can see what new things we can get into and what new experiences I can check off my list. I am waiting for ya!

My Ideal Person Honestly, my ideal person is someone I can talk to without feeling judged or criticized. I don't care about age or body type. I don't care about drinking or smoking. If you can carry on a somewhat intelligent conversation and just be in the moment without secret agendas, then you could be what I am looking for.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
The fantasy I have over and over is to go to lunch or dinner
with a partner. A short time in, I would slide discreetly
under the table (must have long table cloth) and start massaging
her feet and keep going up. I would kiss and lick until I was
tongue deep inside her. I would want to hear the server come
and ask for the order as my partner tries not to let the sheer
enjoyment overcome her.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
To be honest, celebrities turn me off.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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