Just FYI for Gold folks - We can t see most of your, even written, profiles. No indication who has std contacts either… So that s why I (or other regular members) might seem to be ignoring you all. For those who’ve been messaging in the past… Cant see previous convos. Also cant see ANY profile pic from anyone.. Been offline for weeks (lots of personal stuff to attend) but back and ready to play. I can host and willing to travel too. IM barely works here so send a regular message if you re interested and have Std. Contacts. (Please include a photo if you have none on your profile - Im NOT going to out you!) if you want to chat. Please, for the love of the Goddess, say more than just Hi. About me: Experienced (10 years in the lifestyle), very oral, kinky Switch - SSC but mostly sensual, sensation and sexual but I will play at a RACK level with trusted partners. Im a professional, clean, single (divorced) guy looking for like minded, fun, adventurous women, men and couples to play with (alone and|or with others). A regular thing would be awesome. Open to outside the bedroom friendships too. Im a huge outdoors guy. - NSA fun first and foremost. Not looking to change anyones situation. Would like a fwb though. Btw. Lately in a subby mood, leaning bottom, exploring chastity/sissy roles, I have/wear heels (and like to see others wearing) and lingerie plus currently smooth & shaved all over. Ready to play in person. Life and family (caring for elderly ill parents) gets in the way. Im flexible with days & times (weekdays - days & evenings possible) but need to plan/schedule as I can rarely do anything last minute. If I can I will. I actually show up. A previous girlfriend (well shes still a fwb but sadly very long distance) and I were stood up many times even last minute after we had gotten a hotel to play in. Sure we enjoyed ourselves anyway but its kind of a mood killer. Not looking for endless messaging or pic swapping. I want REAL and hands on but we should talk first. Im a business exec with a wicked wild side. Engage the mind and my body is yours. Well yours is mine too. Love Shibari so youll not be going anywhere while I feast if thats your thing too. Couples? Yes, Im bi & vers. So are many many of the straight guys here. I get it and thats your choice to keep it secret. Im very masculine looking and acting. Nobody but my kinky friends, playmates from here and my lover know Im bi. For couples with straight guys yet looking for MfM or other moresomes Im not gonna rub off on you. Honestly. Ive been the Bull, role played the cuck and enjoy being the sensual lover some are looking for. Consent is key for great play. Im not going to do anything without it. Boundaries are vital to respect and honor. All that said many threesome etc. scenarios are much less awkward if youre at least bi-friendly.

My Ideal Person Ideal playmate(s)? While we d all like the hot, beautiful, adventurous next door neighbor thats like hitting Lotto. So for me if you re 30, 69 or even more minutes away thats fine. Im self employed, fairly flexible schedule and on the road frequently. Ill happily travel to you.

Im ideally looking for a kinky, bi woman or couple thats willing to add others into our, hopefully regular, fun. Do I need to say, Please wear your heels Ok. Please!!! Pretty please even. Whipped cream and a cherry on top too!

While I have preferences, I really dont have a race, body type, hair color etc. requirement except PLEASE be height/weight proportionate. Dad & mom bods are ok! Ladies? Some of you think you re BBW but many of you are not in my opinion - you re deliciously full figured. Mmmm yes please.

I find many folks attractive, alluring, sexy, hot. Its all in your attitude and if you re a decent person. I ll respect you and your limits, please respect mine. Need to be discreet? Your secret desires and fantasies filled are safe with me. Still reading? Good I like others whos brain is on. Its our largest sex organ after all...

If youve read this far thank you. Interested? Send a message with Sapio so Il know. You move to the front of the line (so far in 6 months only two of you have read this far. Sadly far too many of you just go dark. Why? Were all adults here - No longer interested just say so. No worries. It is what it is.

Ok, needs to be said - to all you grey ghosts out there. I get it, you want to be uber discreet. But seriously nobody is going to recognize your dick pics so post, or send privately, something or use your words in your bio. Yes, I read them or what youll send me.

VSafe guy here too. Fully vaxxd and boosted. Im DDF are you? I test regularly - last was in Sept, 2023. Also on PrEP just to play it even safer. 420 friendly though I dont smoke/vape.