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allyforfun01 39 / T
"Looking for ongoing and lt friendship +"
Golden, Colorado, United States
 
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allyforfun01 39/T
Golden, Colorado
A little connection takes a little effort. If there isn't potential for at least a friend component, we likely won't match. I don't use IM
Introduction
Looking for friends, fwb (w/a true friend component), or ltr. Very rarely casual hookups. I prefer ongoing. I like a little more connection than a quick one-off provides. Conversations are welcome. I do potentially meet but usually must feel some connection and fwb potential before considering it. I’m rarely into the quickies and prefer to enjoy a little time together. A few hours is nice, so is an evening or day together. A little planning is usually needed. I rarely consider weekends. This is my adventure and/or family/friends time. A bit about me I’m pansexual, identify female, and I’m gender fluid in expression. I usually but not always present male publicly, I prefer to present female privately. I can present female publicly with someone I feel comfortable with. What Pansexual means for me- Love all genders and identities With women- Emotionally and sexually verse With men fairly submissive, but with respect and equality. Not the take a strong lead type girl. I'm a bottom. Orally prefer to give. I'm the lady you're the man. I don't top. All other identities- Open to see where we go. Slightly verse but lean bottom. Sexually very open. Vanilla through adventurous -Foreplay and sensuality are nice, sometimes things naturally move quicker. I enjoy the cuddle and won’t turn down a nice massage. -We all have our kinks, I have mine too. I enjoy a little spanking during, as foreplay, or anytime really ;). Even otk. Why I don't know, it's a kink. Roleplaying is fun BDSM/sensual BDSM, nothing I push for, but I have really enjoyed it. Like a lot. Also open to suggestions. I believe in sexual exploration and sexual adventure. If you have something in mind please ask or initiate. I can be pretty shy about initiating "kink," even the things I enjoy. A good connection with someone leads to a good time, regardless of how we play. -Like many I don't care for potty play or extreme pain. Purposefully breaking the skin or purposefully bruising is past my limit. If a little bit inadvertently happens, it happens. Guys I don't want to be bred (I get asked this way too often). I'm not a blow and go girl. Identity can be complex I identity female. My expression is genderfluid. I’m a transwoman. Trans is the journey not the destination. Trans is an adjective to female or woman. The journey does not change my identity. Must be said, I’m not a gurl, sissy, shemale etc. If it was easier, I would have physically transitioned when I was young. But that wasn’t my life. Knowledge and acceptance weren’t what it is today. Options weren’t easily accessible I am comfortable with gender fluidity. It was never ideal, but I have enjoyed life. Even though I’m truly female I can express/live across boundaries. Gender fluidity for me is only in expression. My identity is constant, not fluid. It’s never I'm female right now, or I'm male right now. It’s not a different character or act. I am just me. “Presenting female” is largely a social construct, but an ingrained one. Things feel right when presenting female. But presenting for expected perceptions is often more comfortable. I naturally like to blend in and “passing” publicly is an anxiety inducing endeavor. In many ways “male presentation” is often required for my current life. This doesn't mean I’m being or feeling male, it’s just presentation. I usually present how I feel I will be most comfortable and happy. I’ve been on hrt for 2.5 years total. Since I started late and experienced some untimely gaps we’ll see where it goes. -Since it is often asked hrt (so far) has provided smoother skin, softer body, little/finer body hair, and smell is a bit more feminine. If you like small breasts, while very small, mine have budded. Nipples are perkier when stimulated (or cold) and a little puffier/softer when relaxed. To be straight I can still pass as a male in a swimsuit. On a good day I can pass as a female in a swimsuit. -My sensuality and sensitivity have greatly expanded. My whole body has become an erogenous zone. I can orgasm through breast/nipple play alone. -Unfortunately, the medications I have access to currently haven’t been as effective as what I started with. Some things are moving slower, and some things have reverted a little. I am married + and only present female 1/3 of the time. My family rocks, but it’s a little complex. We have tried total monogamy and repression of desires (including repression of my identity). We have also explored living apart half time with things totally open (for both). Neither approach worked but provided a lot of learning and strength for us. We have found some good middle ground. So, I am who I am. I'm happy with life and pretty comfortable with my body even though neither would be considered trans ideal. Respectful questions about anything. Everyone's knowledge starts somewhere, everyone has their curiosities. I don't mind chatting, or letting you know it’s too personal

My Ideal Person Honestly the ideal can vary so much and I am attracted to many different types of people (looks, personalities, interests etc.) To keep it simple do we connect and enjoy each other. Do we have nice conversations, enjoy time together. I like people that are open and accepting. Someone I feel I connect with, and can be comfortable around.
My ideal person can't easily be conveyed in a few lines of text because connection is a feeling. But I usually have to feel something here before I will consider meeting someone. In general I look for people I think I would enjoy on the personal level and we share some physical attraction. If it looks like there is potential for the friend part of the fwb we're on our way. Ongoing connection is far more ideal than many one-time/short term flings.
I feel attraction is made up of multiple components such as physical, emotional, intellectual, personality, etc. Can't really be quantified into an ideal. Some connections weight different towards different components, but there is no formula, It's all nuance, and it's multi-faceted. Attraction is an unquantifiable feeling. A pre-set ideal is a bit close minded and fantastical.

For a start people with pictures LOL. Don't need a full face pic. I totally respect the need for privacy but no pics or dick picks won't get you very far. It is nice to see enough to have an idea of who I am talking to. Before meeting I will want to see your face and you will get to see mine. This is a part of attraction. At least for me. Other than that it's up to you when you show more of yourself. But like most people it's easier to engage when we know who we are talking to. And I do feel bad if I've been chatting with someone for awhile, they share some pics, and the attraction isn't there. It happens, but if it's not there it's not there. ,

Conversation and a little flirting will go much further than a crude one liner. I don't mind a little extra forwardness than typical courting, but please try a little so I feel desired rather than objectified.

Have to say it but a little respect. It is possible to talk sexy and hit on someone w/out being an ass or being overly crass.

Like many, pushiness or neediness will quickly drive my interest away.

Entitlement or thinking you are doing me a favor (plenty of guys have taken this approach) will get you nowhere. Telling me your availability and/or asking to drop by without any sort of a conversation first again will get you nowhere.


All that said I am actually quite easy going and open so please reach out. I have had many great conversations and have met plenty of good and fun people on this site.

Guys- I like a guy that will treat me like a lady but respect that I am gender fluid/trans. Physically someone who will focus on my whole body and would rather stimulate my small breasts than my cock.
If your go to pick up line is along the lines of like big cock? or Want some cock? please re-read this section.

Ladies- You are beautiful.

Other Identities- Also beautiful. I appreciate wherever you may be in your journey.

Couples-I love meeting couples. Best of both worlds. I am fully bi and attracted to many types of people.

Crossdressers as a fetish rather than gender identity exploration- It can sometimes be a fine line (sometimes not) but normally not my thing. However I do still respect and appreciate you

Men with a profile as couple- but playing solo, nice try. It's a turnoff.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 39 / TS/TV/TG (Transgender)
  • Golden, Colorado, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: June 10, 1984
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Mixed
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Bra Size: 34 / 75 A
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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