I have been cross-dressing since I was 12 or 13 years old. My epiphany came when I tried on a pair of panties 1 day.......and I've never looked back! To this day I remain a CPF (certified panties freak) and I have a big collection. I am technically a "switch" but err on the side of "sub / bottom". While I love the frilly, femmy, lacie look I also love the edgy look of latex, and I have some wild outfits. I am not into drugs. I don't smoke, but I love to drink. I am 100% "clean"/ D&D free and always use condoms. Am not into any kind of abuse, pain or humiliation. Just good sex! Looking for a kindred spirit- another CD / transvestite to play with, but am not into fat, hairy guys with no makeup and bad wigs etc....sorry! I don't mean to offend! But you must be somewhat passable and really put some effort into your look.