Blue-eyed blonde, attractive, amusing, well-dressed, witty, intelligent, widely read, loves discussing psychology, motivation, life coaching, media. Lived in the USA and Far East as an ex-pat. Hourglass figure, small hands, feet and waist, but big bust and bottom. Sophisticated but sweet, with a giggle. I love sexy clothes, soft silk fabrics, black and red, in winter leather or suede or fur. Don't expect sex on a first date with me. Everybody wants sex, but I may need several platonic dates with different people before I'm sure I've met Mr Right. Just ask me for a second date. I'm looking for any of the following 1 To replace my ex - a LTR with an educated per, preferably a postgrad who has an educated accent offering the same lifestyle as my ex (separated) who earns over 50,000 a year, has a second home with a swimming pool and jets about to five star hotels. ideally Liberal Jewish or WASP, Atheist, non-believing Catholic or Humanist. Successful, motivated, responsible and kind. You might be in the media, medicine, law, and entrepreneur - you tell me. But while waiting for perfection, AND?OR 2 a) Friend. Local activity partner and companion. 2 b) Romance. To make me feel desirable - a romantic dinner date. Ideally with man who has a lovely accent, eg public school, received pronunciation, American, Canadian, South African, New Zealand, Aussie, Scottish. Not Cockney - unless you are Michael Caine. AND/OR 3 If you're too far, to turn me on - Telephone sex. Preferred accents as above. I'm disappointed when a gorgeous looking guy phones and his voice is monotone, stammering, with long silences, and he says "dunno", "somefink", "talkin'" , "an'" and "yeah". My favourite accents are received pronounciation and public school, AND/OR 4 Friend. I love discussing psychology. Why is it that when I am not enjoying love, romance and straightforward sex, I have fantasies about discipline and anal sex? Is this regression to the safe, controlled world of early hood when one was protected? 5 To replace my wonderful - I'm an empty nester with a who has left home - an intense relationship with young man, in his thirties, preferably good looking and public school, straight or bisexual, who is looking for a sympathetic mother figure with a large bust to be his confidante, discuss his crises, a loving woman who will kiss him and caress him, laugh with him or dry his tears, email and phone daily and meet regularly. 6 To entertain me (2 b): Take me swimming, walking, playing music such as opera, operetta, light classics, trad jazz, reggae, Country, pop, folk music. Favourite foods: French, Italian, kosher or Jewish-style, Indian, Chinese, Thai, American, South African, New Zealand lamb, organic, health and fresh fruit juices. Don't tempt me with chocolate. I'm on a diet. Take me to your country club / gym / hotelwith pool. I'm looking for a LTR and romance. (And while waiting for Mr Right, erotic stories and phone calls.) Right now I'm not interested in no strings sex so I'm not keen on receiving revealing, intimate photos of men nor indiscreet photos of multiple girlfriends. ( I won't send intimate photos of myself.) Your eyes and face interest me. I'm not enthusiastic about balding men, nor white or grey hair, nor short hair. But I'll forgive you if you have a great sense of humour, money and a profession and dress with style. I adore long hair, preferably falling over one eye - that's what I consider sexy. Like the interior designer Llewelyn-Bowen (he was on UK TV's Changing Rooms, American TV's Trading Places and Who Wants To Be A Millionaire. Don't send nude pictures of yourself. Shirt and tie will impress me, and dinner jacket. A bow tie shows I can take you anywhere and introduce you to anybody I know or want to know and be proud of being seen out with you as a date, the man of the moment with the potential for being the love of my life.

My Ideal Person Looking for any of the following
1 To replace my ex - an LTR with educated, postgrad with educated accent offering with same lifestyle as my ex (separated) who earns over £50,000 a year, has a second home with a swimming pool and jets about to five star hotels. Ideally Liberal Jewish or WASP, Atheist, Catholic or Humanist. Probably 49-59. Maybe in law, medicine, finance, media and/or property. MD, CEO, entrepreneur, literary agent, impresario welcome. AND/OR
2 To make me feel desirable - Romantic dinner date with man who has a lovely accent, public school, American, Canadian, South African, New Zealand, Aussie, Scottish. Not Cockney - unless you're Michael Caine. You pay bills, hail taxis, drive cars and are dominant in the bedroom. AND/OR
3 To turn me on - Telephone sex. Preferred accents as above. AND/OR
4 Discuss psychology. Why is it that when I'm not enjoying love, romance and straightforward sex, I have guilt-trip fantasies about discipline and anal sex? AND/OR
5 To replace my wonderful son - I'm an empty-nester whose son has left home - an intense relationship with younger or older man, preferably good looking and public school, wanting a mother figure with a large bust to be his confidante, discuss his crises, a loving woman who will kiss him, caress him, laugh with him or dry his tears, email and phone daily and meet regularly.
You might be in the media, medicine, law, and an entrepreneur - tell me.
I'd like to see a picture of you. Clothed! Does anybody on this site wear clothes?
Can’t send your picture?
Maybe it's too large.
Reducing picture size:
(Get a friend to install on your computer Paintshop Pro 3 or another programme which enables you to edit pictures.)
Go into paintshop pro 3.
Crop the picture from full size to head only using the square symbol.
This may reduce the picture enough.
Pixels means picture elements.
Screen size is 1024 width by height 768.
Tick box for Image, Resample, Maintain aspect ratio.
Width 800 fits nicely on the screen.
Having resized it save the reduced picture, using Options, Compression Ratio=1.
Check file size in Explorer (My Computer). 150kb max for emailing. If still too large, save again with a higher Compression Level 5, 10, 15.
Now send it.
Thanks. Latest - The words spanking and discipline turn me on, and I love fantasies, so long as they don't include marking skin nor unprotected sex. My GP's surgery has a leaflet on oral sex which says you should use dental dams. Where do you get them? Is anybody prepared to use them? If so, let me know. I keep expanding and updating my profile. So, keep watching. I don't want nude photos and don't give out my email until I know somebody. Oral sex with strangers is not my fantasy nor my ideal first date. I'm into safe sex and I'm a romantic. If you live far away I might be persuaded into phone sex about spanking by a headmaster but I'd prefer somebody single and free to take me out on Saturday night for a romantic candle-lit dinner including eyes meeting over a glass of champagne or kir. You are already above average and deserve a reply if you take the trouble to use a spell check, and your wardrobe contains a shirt and tie, and you can manage to smile at a camera. I'd be interested in meeting you if you are a lawyer, management consultant, doctor, entrepreneur, academic or seem to fit my lifestyle and sound intelligent, educated and amusing, you read, travel and make some enticing offer. Over to you. Can you make me smile and laugh? More than two sentences. A sensible letter please. Both serious and funny, informative and interesting.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Any Country music. Music hall such as Flanders and Swan and Yiddish humorous songs.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Anything about a naughty schoolgirl being spanked, caned and having anal intercourse.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Four-poster bed. Headmaster's study.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Affection.

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