I am fairly new to the area. I am not your typical "anything" and I don't like being labelled. Open-minded and caring, always sticking up for the underdog. After reading so many profiles of people with such wonderful lives and great things going for them I can't understand why I see so many unhappy faces at work and out in other public places. I like to enjoy whatever is going on wherever I am and make the best of everything. I am just interested in sharing some of my daily life with someone else. Actually, upon reflection I just think when there is someone to share things with some of the "troubles" are not so troublesome and afterward I find I have become closer to those near me. I don't seem to be as comfortable with my "aloneness" as I used to be. If interested we can swap a few more pics and see if we are up to meeting and go from there.

My Ideal Person People looking to start up friendships / relationships tend to start looking for others with similar backgrounds, likes and dislikes, hobbies, interests, etc. I have a very, very close relationship with a woman and her immediate family and I pattern my ideal friendships, whether long or short term after her and her husband. When I first got to know her and we were talking about "types" one day and I asked how she met her husband, noting that from what I knew about him at the time, and all the things she was telling me about him they seemed like an unlikely pair and he didn't seem to be her type - AT ALL. And she excitedly exclaimed, most definitely, "He wasn't! I thought he was boring!" But she went on to say, thankfully that he was fairly persistent, and because she was open and willing enough to "look", she began to see that the similarities were that they were both open and willing to new ideas and activities, which kept everything on a growing / learning and definitely interesting - and sometimes EXCITING - level. And even now after many years together what differences they have compliment each other!
So with that in mind I guess I am looking for a caring woman who is looing for a friend / friends who is / are open and willing to new ideas, interests, activities and who is / are independent but, like me, wishes to "walk alone, but with others". If you understand that or think you at least might, then we should talk! Sometimes the "moment" only occurs once, and if we miss it, we never know what great things we might have missed.
No matter where it is or I am I find I am most comfortable and able to enjoy life more when I am around people with a sense of humor that somewhat matches mine.

You know, I really don't understand what people expect sometimes. They put in their profiles that they aren't looking for a lifelong mate or long term relationship; they don't want just sex or one-night stands; that there has to be some chemistry first before they go any further; but yet when it comes to meeting they are so "stand-offish" a winch couldn't get us together!
Do they expect this so-called chemistry and feelings of "comfortableness" with one another to come through the e-mails and chat rooms?
When I think back to when I first met my close friends, workers and other acquaintances who I now like a lot I remember how much they seemed so "different" and all the things I didn't like about them. AFTER I got to know them a little the "chemistry" began to take over and we became closer and comfortable around each other.
I don't necessarily want a longterm relationship either and I am not a "drop your drawers and fuck like rabbits" type of person; I need to have some feelings of compatibility and "ease" being around a person first. But I also know that those feelings will never happen BEFORE I actually meet them!
All this talk of chemistry and "ease of being around someone" is nothing more than the serendipity resulting from the spontaneous occurrences which are a further result of two people letting go of their "garbage" (for lack of any truer definition) enough to finally meet and allow something to happen! At least this is how I see it has worked for me in the past.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Food Play, sensory "play"

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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