i am a male that is looking for some fun at times where as found that cybersex can be fun to a point ... if a pen pal turns up that is fine where as like i said i look and search for a bit of fun at times.. from my black hat to my footware i enjoy a good cup of coffee with a woman's company even if it is only a few cups of coffee assuming that she doesn't mind a bit of smoke from what is burning depending on where it is .. last time i checked there were 8 members in the detroit lakes area here as i look forward to honer of their company even if it is only that cup of coffee .. there is in the end only so much i can do as a standerd member where as times will come when i start getting busy on the business of what i call chopping enough wood during the sea where as failior to do so can lead to a long winter in the end ...