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kirkcashew 64 / M
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kirkcashew 64/M
Raleigh, North Carolina
Ok, I'm back. But only for a little while. Let's see what happens...
Hello! It would be nice if I saw some LEGITIMATE interest . What a refreshing change that would be! Though I am currently separated (as of 11/19), who knows what the future will hold. Regardless, if you're husband hunting, I am definitely NOT the guy you're looking for. The only sort of relationship I'm interested in now is a FWB, or whatever you want to call occasionally getting together, whether it's for sex, having a drink, or just hanging out wherever. I'm not looking for someone to take up all my time, nor do I want to take up all of yours. I am rather tall (over 6 ft.), and while I 'm not "fat", I am certainly not "skinny". No 6 pack abs, no bulging biceps. I have very little hair. As far as looks go, I am neither the handsomest, nor the ugliest guy you will meet. Some consider me handsome, others haven't given me the time of day, so I guess I'm somewhere in between. Though I can if need be, I try not to take things too seriously. I'm pretty laid back, kinda goofy, kinda dorky. I try to project a worldly persona, but my country roots bleed through eventually. My humor tends to be on the sarcastic side. My main Interests are music and technology. I consider myself a bit "rough around the edges". I tend to cuss a lot. I don't know if I qualify as eccentric, but I'm definitely not "normal (whatever that is). I don't care for formal behavior or attire. I can be "grown up" when I have to, but prefer to go through life as essentially a grown up version of the goofy little dork I was at 10. As far as the sex thing goes, I'm an experienced, giving partner - sometimes tender, sometimes rather rough. I've been around the block a few times, and am always open to (somewhat) new experiences. Sure, the idea here is to get laid, but that doesn't mean we can't have good conversation also.

My Ideal Person You should be smart, witty, curious, spirited. An irreverent, and ribald sense of humor helps. Age and shape isn't that important, to a degree. A woman who isn't afraid to call a dick a dick, a pussy a pussy; who knows that corn-holing isn't just a beanbag game.
Your age or shape is not that important. Looks are, to a degree, but then who am I to say who's good looking or not? I learned long ago not to place too much emphasis on any one aspect of looks. I'm more of a "big picture" guy. Attitude counts about as much as looks, as far as I'm concerned. My preferences skew towards white women, but I'm open to all responses.

If you're husband hunting, pass me by, please. I'm not looking to rebound from a failed marriage. A purely physical relation would be nice, but it would also be nice to have someone to (besides the sex stuff) shoot the shit with, hang out every once in a while with, etc. If you don't mind talking to an old white guy, then maybe you'll be intrigued enough to inquire further. f you're fearless, awesome, wacky, confident, with a nasty, devil-may-care attitude, feel free to respond!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Beatles, Frank Zappa, Todd Rundgren, Pink Floyd

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No one stands out.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 64 / male
  • Raleigh, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: February 1, 1958
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 6 ft 3 in / 190-193 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: High school graduate
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Length: Receding
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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