[B]Who are we?[/B] We're an active and physically fit 40s couple (married), 5'6"/145 and 6'3"/185 respectively. We're attractive (but far from perfect), smart and well educated (but not smug), funny (we think), and uninhibited (mostly). While our vanilla day jobs keep us busy, we always find time for "friends with benefits." (Work hard, play hard ... right?) [B]What do we like?[/B] We enjoy long walks, forest hikes, biking, and skinny dipping. We like to spend long afternoons at baseball games in the summer and U of O football games in the fall. We're avid readers and enjoy intelligent conversation. We love hot baths, long evenings at Edgefield, browsing the stacks at Powells, and listening to all kinds of music (from Beethoven and Erik Satie to Liz Phair and Natalie Merchant). Our favorite wine is pinot noir and our favorite beer is lavender pale. Our philosophy, in a nutshell, is that life is short and that every day is a blessing that should be lived honestly and to the fullest. [B]What is sexy to us?[/B] Burning sensuality. It comes in so many different forms and shapes. A smoldering look. A touch. The softness of warm lips. The feeling of nimble fingers running up my bare thigh in a skirt, rubbing the satin of my panties and feeling the curve of my sex (oh my word). Mmm ... I could go on and on ... [B]Who are we looking for?[/B] We're looking for single bi females and couples. Our ideal female playmate is someone who loves to have fun, who can laugh at herself (and us too!), who enjoys an adventure, is flirtatious, and likes to color outside the lines. She should also be healthy, cute (of course), low drama, and playful. Extra points for any combination of passion, confidence, individuality, intellect, beauty, humor, soft skin, and nice teeth. Double points for the ability to give a great kiss. We like couples who are secure in their relationship, understand what's truly important, and play well with others. We've met several couples in the past few years and, damn, we had no idea how hot this can be when you find the right pair! So, if you enjoy hot baths and a good bottle of wine savored over a long evening, we could share an experience worth exploring. Usual caveats.