Yes, from a small town popped on here to hopefully find a long-term friend. In to video games, manga, anime, movies, camping, swimming, hiking. I am pretty laid back but hoping not to deal with a lot of ghosters...seems like a lot of guys can't hold a friendship for even two weeks, can you do better? Description: Laidback Tomboy who yes can dress sexy _ who likes to get her gaming on from video games or board games. Outdoor activities love camping, boating, kayaking, hiking Friendship stats: Loyal Funny with a side of goofballness Supportive Good listener I Will always try to be honest and upfront with you (Unless about a surprise party) I care- I know it is shocking you're not just going to be another number on my phone/chats Physical Stats: Blonde hair Blue Eyes Curvy--earn your "Thick thighs save lives, but thigh highs are my demise" badge Sex stuff: Above all else, I am a Sensualist so no pain (mentally or physically), blood, scat, hooks. Anal with someone who I trust Ties with someone who I trust Oral Yes please all locations giving and taking Massage: Yes please giving and taking Fantasies and / or real experiences: I know this is crazy.. but a real friendship seems so hard in today's world. Hot sex with that friend followed by hanging out while we wait for him to recharge and then go at it again.

My Ideal Person Why I want a friend with benefits:

1.) We get along with each other and resonate; we have similar interests, or we’re at least open-minded and receptive to each other’s interests. We respect what we want to leave alone about each other, and we share what we both love together.
2.) We’re friends, unbiased, doing our own thing. We have no concrete obligations, but we do have lots of respect for each other’s lives and we WANT to hang out
3.) We’re supportive of each other’s wants and desires and try to fulfill what makes each other happy, but only to our personal comfort level.
4.) We know how to compromise, debate alternatives, and meet halfway to have our needs met. But we listen to each other when we say “no”. We respect each other’s boundaries!
5.) We don’t ghost each other; we’re transparent about how we feel, we make time for one another when we’re able, and we have the guts to express needs such as personal space and breaks from the “benefits”, and we also give reasons why.
6.) We trust each other, and we have each other’s back if we request it from one another
7.) We enjoy the benefits of a long-term, flexible commitment
8.) We can rely on each other for playing games, having a good laugh, and giving each other great sex
9.) We have our sexual needs met, and we’re open to exploring new possibilities sexually
10.) We connect emotionally, as well as sexually; we flex empathy and compassion in and out of bed

Hopefully, you like one of these video games, anime, manga, sci-fi, Doctor Who
Must be STD free and willing to prove it
In the age range of 21-45ish (can be flexible if I like your face)
Looking for a close friendship with added bonuses...someone who cares enough if things aren't working doesn't just ghost just let me know we are all adults _

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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