I am a professional, so work can keep me busy at times. I find myself working 40-60 hours per week. Having two who are active consumes most of what remains of my time. They are everything to me. My wife likes sex when we have it, but for her it's like exercise (she enjoys it once she's doing it, but she doesn't usually feel like trying). She does not like giving oral (her gag reflex is so strong she will vomit if the head even touches her tongue) and rarely lets me go down on her. I bought a vibe and used it on her once but it wasn't "natural." I love my wife to death, but she is very inhibited and, after 20 plus years together, it is obvious that things won't change much. I tell you this simply to let you know that I am interested in having fun and going with wherever the mood takes us. I am willing to try most anything. If you contact me please be discreet. l will do the same for you. I'm not looking for a life change, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to hearing from you. PLEASE NOTE: I am a long-time lurker and still haven't taken the plunge yet. I am also a basic user, so I CANNOT read messages or send messages unless you have this option enabled for basic members.

My Ideal Person Someone who is not looking for a relationship and can understand that I have a family and respect that boundary.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One of my fantasies is to blindfold and bind my wife and warm
her up with foreplay and then sneaking in another man to
fuck her.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Natalie Portman. She is so intelligent.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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