NOTE: I'm a standard/basic member who's only interested in St Louis MO area women (within 50 mi). I can view profile snapshots and hotlist women occasionally to express my interest. However, I cannot view your profile details or correspond with you unless/until you contact me first. ABOUT ME: I'm a straight, mature, married, white professional man who has a fair amount of experience with dating, younger women, and taking control during consensual sexual play and exploration. I'm familiar with both sexy, romantic, affectionate vanilla play as well as taking control and light/moderate/rough BDSM. I'm seeking attractive, at least reasonably HWP, drama/drug/disease-free, sexually adventurous women for trysts/playdates. I'm open to an on-going relationship. On-going could be anything from fuck-buddies where me meet almost exclusively for sex, to FWBs who get together for fun both in and out of the bedroom (walking/hikes, coffee, meals, movies, pool, bowling, simply hanging out together, etc), to an exclusive lover's/dating relationship. I'm an at least reasonably nice-looking, straight, fit/athletic (regular exerciser: run/hike lift), Drama/Drug/Disease-Free, mature/later60s, university educated, professional. I'm a laid-back professional gentleman in public and fun kinky/adventurous in private. I've always been in control but I'd be open to a woman who's a soft switch. Never experience time on the bottom... it's a bucket list thing. I do love to lick: bottoming could be just meeting to lick you or to consent to give you control with safeword. Probably would be a one time or occasional thing but who knows. If you're submissive or a switch I definitely know how to take control (need dirty talk, a sex spanking, a yoni/pussy massage while in bondage with orgasm control, or maybe something rougher?). You must be STD/HIV free. I'm not interested in women who are obese (few extra is fine), who aren't of legal age, or males (you must be genetically female). I've had a few meetings with a pre-op, on-testosterone but feminine-looking, FTM and I'm open to meet a pre-op FTM again. I'm NOT interested in sex with males, pay-to-play ( or sugarbaby), anyone with STD/HIV, a 24/7 or long-distance or texting/email-only relationship, or BS. I'm open to a platonic friendship with the male member of a MF couple where I'm intimate with the lady as long as there is no jealousy/drama...just understand that I'll only date/play with the woman one-on-one (no hubby voyeur or 3-way). Interested? ...if so, reply to let me know. Before meeting I'll require your: age, description/stats, STD/HIV-status, zip code, and cell (voice verification, discussion of needs/expectations, and if appropriate setting things up). Looking forward to making acquaintances and friends...

My Ideal Person Intelligent, athletic or close, HWP, playful, horny, respects herself and others, wants on-going non-24/7 relationship. Open to anything from a May/December thing with a coed, young professional, or MILF to a relationship with "une femme d'un certain age" who is young of heart and who has taken care of herself rather than surrendering to the inevitable aging process.