If I am online, chances are I am on Instant messenger! catch me there. You must know I do smoke and I like my Southern Comfort! Now that's out of the way.. First a little about My beliefs, I guess. - Before You can expect someone to release control to You, You must first be in control of Yourself. With that being said, I am not perfect nor have I ever claimed to be. -Trust and respect are earned and not given. -Honesty and communication are the keys to any relationship. -Learning about each other is an important step, and not just the sexual side. There are many more aspects, aside from sex, to be learned about your potential partner. -One of my biggest pet peeves is the judgement you get from within the BDSM community. You know, the whole my kink is ok but you're a perv, or your kink is just freaky and not right. I respect other's likes and dislikes, so please do not disrespect Mine. I am a kind, loving, and honest per who is ideally looking for a lovely woman for a LTR. As this is not an ideal world, until I find My one, play meetings, erotic chat (voice and/or text) and emails, or just friends is not out of the question. With all of that being said, if and when I do find My one, all other activities will be stopped immediately, PERIOD! No questions asked. I do not do the whole poly thing. What's Mine is Mine and I do not share My toys well with others. I am searching for a pet, toy, or baby girl to make mine. I have been into the lifestyle for over 15 years. Many of those were spent as a switch. I do believe the sub side has been laid to rest. I have been recently introduced to Daddy Doms. I didn't think I would like or care for this aspect of the lifestyle at first. I have to admit that I have found this to be an interesting niche that I would enjoy pursuing further. I am kind and gentle and will be the first to admit that I am not the strictest Dom in the world. That can change if I feel the change is needed and warranted. I have a sadistic side as well (I know...what Dom doesn't) I am not looking to do injury or harm, but a little erotic pain doesn't hurt *laughs*. I have never had a 24/7 lifestyle relationship. I do believe the idea has merits and I would be interested in pursuing that aspect. I do have a very sarcastic sense of humor, so please be aware that a sense of humor will be required on your part. If you're interested in anything you have read, talking to Me, or just want to say hi... feel free to hit Me up. After all, we can all use friends, right?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, and much much more

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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