I am a soon-to-be 47 year old woman in Gainesville, FL. I love to have fun and usually manage to be happy with whatever circumstances life throws at me. I dont know if I'm looking for a long term romantic relationship, but I tend to make long term frienships regardless of the intimacy level. Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going perality. I'm not into the bar scene though I do have a couple of places I dont mind hanging out with friends. I like my partners to tell me what to do in the bedroom but that doesn't mean I wont ever initiate things. I like trying new things and I like turning my partner on to new things as well.

My Ideal Person I cant really say what an 'ideal' match would be. If I start to list things I want or dont want in a person I might either overlook or be overlooked by someone who doesn't feel they 'fit'. So, that being said, I like good people. People you can feel comfortable with in any situation. Dont get me wrong - casual flings can be fun, no strings friends can be fun, but at this point in my life, I'd like to find something just a bit deeper than that.

In addition, while I have my own reasons for needing discretion, I am single and prefer my partners to be the same. I am not looking for a LTR but I have a fairly busy life and dont want to be limited to meeting only when the other person can 'sneak away'. I'm honest by nature and prefer that my partners be as well. Also, I will not bring sexual partners to my home so you need to either have or be willing to provide a place for us to meet and play.

I love tender, romantic, touchy-feely stuff and then again I've been known to beg to be tied up and spanked. I feel as long as both partners are willing, and respect each other's limits, exploration and communication are wonderful.

If you send me an e-mail that tells me nothing about yourself except for the fact that you want to fuck, dont expect a reply. The more you let me know, the more interesting you'll be. Also, I prefer to meet people within about 30 minutes of myself. That's a pretty strong preference so if you're going to try to talk me out of it, there better be some pretty strong incentive. Otherwise, you will just come across as a self-serving male who doesn't respect my desires.......

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub, or in front of a fire

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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