Well, we're not really new at this anymore but we'd still call ourselves "freshmen". We've rewritten our profile, maybe it will help our potential new friends get to know us more quickly… cause that leads to more fun... We're both professionals who are relaxed and sane; we love to talk, love to laugh and we love life. We're both discrete and relaxed about this activity in particular and things in general. He's straight. She's also straight, but doesn't mind some friendly groping and rubbing. In our non-working life, we spend time with our , and, when we can, he cooks and shoots competitively; she reads and paints. We're not bar hoppers and, perhaps most importantly, this is not a "lifestyle" for us, rather, it's a hobby that we enjoy when we can. Maybe this will give you a peek into our life - looking around the living room as we write this, we can see: Ratatouille on Blu-ray, David McCullough's 1776, the violin D made, Gastronomique by Larousse, the DVDs for LOST, an iPad, Monday Night Football playing in the background, several of G's paintings, wooden ABC blocks (although those aren't, strictly speaking, for US), and a 5-quart LeCreuset Dutch oven that belonged to D's mother, and her mother before her. We've had some fun times with both single guys and couples. We're looking for friends we can get to know outside the bedroom and can help us cap off a fun evening out. We like people who are outgoing, drama free and can carry on a conversation. Neither of us are smokers, and frankly, it's a deal-breaker for her. The people with whom we best connect tend to treat this activity like a hobby, not as part of their identity. Physically, we're looking for clean and appealing people. Being "hot" isn't important to us, but, like us, you should look like you care about your appearance. (But so long as we're talking about what we like physically, she likes tall or solidly built guys and he likes gals who are flirty, playful and smiley.) We'd love to hear from you, feel free to contact us, but be warned, it can be difficult for us to connect (either online or in per). We usually start by chatting or emailing and then meet somewhere for drinks. We usually like to get to know folks a bit before we meet and although we sometimes play on a first date, it's not typical. Generally speaking we're a soft swapping couple, but won't rule out full with a couple we like and have gotten to know well. Single guys, feel free to email us, but maybe a picture of your junk isn't the best introduction. Seriously, in the first three months of being on AFF, we've seen more cocks than in our entire lives. A picture and a couple of well written paragraphs about yourself will likely work much better. Hopefully that helps you understand more about us. Cause if you've made it this far, we'd like to know more about you!