Single, handsome professional with a variety of interests beyond work! I am 6'1", 193 lbs, athletic build, tan, salt n pepper, blue eyes. Education: BA, MA, JD. Live and work in OP, KS. I'm laid back to the extreme. In addition to the obvious, I have passion for gourmet food, fine wine, jazz and blues, art, travel, things beautiful and things physical. I'm physically and intellectually active. I possess a wicked sense of humor and a very dry wit. Eclectic tastes and well read. It is true that nothing ventured, nothing gained. It also is difficult to convey "attraction" by posting a profile without sounding full of one's self. I assure you that I am not.

My Ideal Person Seeking an intelligent woman with discerning taste and a passion for living life well and to its fullest. She should hunger for the "right" connection and have hope that such a feeling is still possible to attain. She should be looking for a fun friendship that would be lighthearted, ongoing and physically intense. Almost all "baggage" should be checked in. No head games, please. Age is irrelevant but she should be and want to remain "young at heart." I have. She should be romantic and have a sense of wonderlust about her. She should be tactile....and have all her senses erotically charged. She should be without very small child (or nearly so as this is more a guideline than a rule, to borrow Bill Murray's phrase). She should be, or would like to be, a bit edgy/experimental in bed. My discretion is assured. The key is that she should want to have fun, be otherwise interesting as well, enjoy the absurdities of life, be erotically "inspired" and be able to carry on a conversation with wit and charm. I am attracted to women that have self-confidence and demonstrate a desire to live life in the moment. So.......where are you?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Ellington, Louis, Miles, Ella, Billie, Jobim, Eva, Sarah, Diana Krall,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, intelligence and an ability to articulate fantasies

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't think at that level. I prefer real people who stimulate me to fantastic thought.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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