Probably ought to update this stuff, at least the stuff above the line... I've been having fun with a few folks from this site, but have had a lot more fun with some gals from a full-on vanilla dating site. I'm updating my profile to include meeting couples! I'm having fun with a couple now; who'da known! +++++++++++ I’m independent, hold a good job, am educated as an engineer and able to fix the water pump on your 1991 Toyota, or your 1972 Duster. I’ve rebuilt traction motors for golf carts, generators for Jeeps, and have done more complete bathroom remodels than I care to think about (I won’t do those anymore, I’ll hire that out). My father taught me about opening doors, never going Dutch with a lady, and keeping the peace. Mom has just recently helped me understand the value of being very clear on my own expectations, that honesty is more than just what goes in one ear and out the other; if you hear me say something, it’s going to be true. I love listening to music, most recently into Alternative (Middle Class Rut, Foster the People, Arcade Fire) but the classics of Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Van Halen, Steve Miller Band, Poi, Pearl Jam; those all still make me want to jump up and down. I’ve also started listening to the new Nickelback album, and it don’t matter how bad you think it is. I love music and concerts, don’t hardly watch TV at all; I’d rather workout, go hiking. Having a relationship experience, especially in-and-around the lifestyle is really important to me. I have found out that you can't be *brand-new* or normally suspicious about those you meet or pair up with, because you'll never enjoy yourself. I'm only interested in decent, loving conversations, some fun times that might include bowling, fast cars, hiking, time at the gym, or whatever we say makes sense (that probably means sex, which is a rea I am here). As I’m not yet being overloaded with responses from ladies that want to meet me, or be all over me. So unless you are so outside of my comfort zone, I’ll probably respond to you. I completely expect that the right one(s) understand most of what is written here. I’m not interested in meeting men (really – no ding), it doesn’t matter how hot you are.

My Ideal Person Is breathing, walking, talking, and smiling. If you can't smile, especially in some picture you may post or send me, then why are you here?

You should be able to see your part in the last few arguments you've had; no perfection here, just honest growth. I'm not overly concerned with your body type, but please be able to tie your own shoes. I have a very high energy level and go from the time I'm up until I hit the pillow. I think that God's sense of humor is really twisted, because he makes old dudes like me work our asses off to keep up with girls our same age. How come when I was 19 all the girls wanted babies and naps when I got home from work and now that y'all are over 40 you can fuck all night? Ha-ha, I'll try to keep up.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, My parents' front lawn, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Well sure, but like when I was 12...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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