Hello and BEST WISHES TO EVERYONE. I'm from Victoria BC Canada. I now live in Tacoma Washington USA since 1995. I am single and not married. I'm not rich but comfortable and do well. I'm self-employed and own my businesses for 12 years now. I work as Martial arts instructor, Paralegal and musician, I've worked hard all my life. I must say to those looking for money(I DO NOT PAY FOR SEX,NOR HAVE I ever,NOR WILL I) I want a real relationship with one special per and we in time could share together want we have. We don't need much to be happy, but it helps LOL. I have only been with one Transsexual lady in my whole life. I never know till after 4 months of dating her. I asked her why she would not make love to me and she stood up and showed me she was born a man. I WAS SHOCKED!!!, I WAS SHOCKED!!! I NEVER KNEW ABOUT ANY SUCH THING I HAD ONLY HEARD ABOUT IT ,I JUST LOOK AT HER AND SAID, SO WHAT I LOVE YOU, but she was more woman than most of the biological women I've met or have ever been with. She embraced her femininity and loved just being a good girl. I was lucky enough that she had chosen me to walk with in her Transition as her Man, Boyfriend and Lover. We had fun,loving, stimulating but sometime hard relationship. But the best i'v ever had. It was not all about her and she gave all of herself to me as well. We were together for 9 year. She died in a car accident in 1999. Her name was Crystal. Sorry about the story but true and I hope you all understand. Transsexual women are just as beautiful, loving and sexy as any naturally born female to me. Whether she has a sex change or not. OK then, I like doing outdoor stuff anything really as long as it won't kill me lol, playing my guitars ,o yes cooking, riding my Harley-David Motorcycle, going out for dinner or brunch with my girlfriend or friends is alway nice. Drinking out going to a bar or club sometimes at home on the porch, balcony or back yard by the fire pit. I try to keep my appearance up and look good. I'm not materialistic or superficial but do like nice things. I'm a straight handsome black man, chivalrous and a gentleman but could be spontaneous and bit edgy with all safety and respect. I have no problems being in the company or around gay,bi,trans,lesbian i'm kool with all that. I know what i want and who i am. I may be saying to much but i do not want to waste your time or mine. I'm completely healthy I have No STDs , No Aids, No Hiv i'm Clean. I do not smoke anything at all i don't care if I'm around people that do it does bother me. I haven't had sex in over a year, yes i know but no shit true no sex in a year,I'm ready. Ok ladies i'm ready to move on and meet the girl, to go to the next level with. I want to do some traveling i need a honest, safe,loyal loving, girlfriend maybe a wife. I'm always looking to grow in life and move forward to enjoy the things life has to offer us even if i have to learn something or work hard to get it, that's ok with me i love doing that. Hopefully i will find someone to start sharing it with together. I am lonely but not crazy or desperate for love, I can wait a little bit longer LOL. I know she is out there, Hopefully she will find me. Stay Safe And Keep well Everyone, TJ.

My Ideal Person I want to meet one real,honest,passionate, fun loving, sexy, playful but Serious Ts or Tg girl who is down to earth and can hold a naturally good conversations between us, stimulating stuff for the mind,heart and soul, it could make for great sex too, Right. But be real and able to like each others head space. I like to learn new things so we don't have to have a lot's in common and if we do all the better, great. We just have to like what each other is about and where we are going in life. New stuff is fun to learn. Come as you are don't hurt no one and be real and honest. I want a long term relationship love,honest loyalty and happiness, all in time i know.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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