Comfortably retired, presents well, recently returned home after many years overseas. Has a need therefor to build a close, compatible, physical open relationship, to enhance and fill a gap in an otherwise balanced lifestyle. Missing that special lady on my arm or being in the company of a couple who would share their togetherness as friends. Have a high testosterone level not fully matched physically. Planning overseas trips later in the year but in the meantime happy to connect and or guide visitors to NZ.

My Ideal Person A lady who enjoys and expresses her femininity and individualism, mentally,visually and physically. However, we would each have our sexual needs and therefor accept and appreciate this in each other. A journey together. Perhaps is seen as a lady but is a tart in the bedroom. If we jell, and as I sometimes lack a little in full physical performance, happy to be your voyeuristic husband in your chosen adventures or perhaps explore together your Dom,/Master needs. Whatever, we are close non-judgemental partners.

Much the same would go if invited to join a couple to see if a close compatible but discrete relationship could develop with both the husband and wife.Although I am not bisexual I am not bi critical but what is important to me is that each one in this relationship are equals and
appreciated.
How about watching the Rugby with your wife dressed to thrill. Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being invited to a couple in their home with the wife
dressed to thrill and as the evening progresses watching
them developing into sexual activities to intercourse.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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